The Mollie Chronicles

The Big 0-1

2011-07-06T21:09:00.000-04:00

A few days ago, as the big 0-1 was approaching fast, I found myself emotional & super sentimental. I'm sure it's that bittersweet moment of your baby becoming a toddler that does it to you, but I didn't expect to feel as I did. It was a combo of baby fever and pure excitement to watch this child develop before my eyes!!

My heart doubled in size on July 6, 2010

One of my most favorite moments of all my days is when I put Mollie to bed at night. It's a special time I can share with her, as we (I) talk about our day a little bit, read a book and it's pretty much the only time she stays still long enough to let me cuddle with her!! This past week holding M, I reminisced looking up at her newborn portrait on the wall and trying to think back when she was that tiny--how was that JUST a year ago, but then has it already been a year?! What a whirlwind and AMAZING year of tears, laughs & more laughs! I think we've had such FUN this past year, I can't wait to see what others bring.

My lil peanut!

I'm more than blown away by the love Matt & I both have for her--she is the true JOY of our lives and I feel that our marriage has grown even stronger & deeper sharing in Mollie together;) Matt is an awesome dad to say the least!!! Mollie just lights up when her 'da-da' is around and I have to say that Matt lights up even MORE when his Molls is around. Might be the sweetest thing ever to witness.

I'd always heard 'I'll do anything for my children' from a number of people, including my awesome mom and not that I didn't believe them, but at the same time kinda thought, 'well, I don't know about ANYTHING.' Boy was I wrong...Speaking for myself, I can honestly say that for the well-being or life of my child, I would give up everything for her. By that I mean, I'll live in my car if I have to. I'll live off canned food for the rest of my life if that means she'll have more. I would wear a paper bag & care less about what it looks like, if it means my daughter will be properly clothed. I would seriously jump in front of a train for her- And not think twice about doing it. I had no CLUE my love and devotion to her would go that deep--sheesh, am I in for a real treat;) I knew I wanted children & knowing Mollie it definitely makes me want more!

As my sentiment kicked in this past week, I decided to take the day off work today on M's birthday--I wanted to share this day that's ours together with one another. We had a GREAT time!! Walked this morning, she took a nice AM nap, ate a good lunch (girl never has a problem eating, haha!) then we headed downtown Charleston for the afternoon!! We spent almost a couple hours at the Children's Museum, which is just precious and Molls LOVED it!

We met some other nice moms & babies & Mollie discovered that she loves stairs! Thank GOD we don't have them in or house-she was a total pro. It was hysterical to watch as I had no clue!!

The pic is blurry b/c she is SUPER fast!!

We then met Matt for some frozen yogurt on King St, mmmm and by the time we got back to the car, she was BEAT! I knew the moment I put her in the car she'd crash--oh yeah she did!

We got home & cruised the neighborhood in 'her car.' Notice that my dad, aka 'Pops' decided to outfit her ride with some bumper stickers--nice! Next up, gifts!! Molls got a precious retro pink kitchen to compliment her already 'sophisticated palate' as Matt puts it and also gives her something to do while ~~we're~~ Matt's in there cooking, as she only wants to do what we're doing- so funny.

Let's roooollll!

Beep! Beep!!

M's kitchen--open for biz!

The 1st anniversary of her birth is ending....but the party is not!! Typical Szteiter/Garrett fashion, we're gunna drag this sucka out!! Looking forward to a fun party and capping the weekend off with professional family pics--perfect way to be with the ones we love the most, share in the time together & create new memories. We love you Mollie!!!! Happy 1st Birthday sweetheart!!!! You are my life. Thank you for being born to us.

It's been a while

2011-07-03T10:40:00.000-04:00

As we are nearing the big 0-1 birthday, I've realized I've backed off a bit from the blog. I have all these great posts I want to do and updates I want to make, and yet, between full-time Center for Women, Stella & Dot night and weekends, planning the b-day shindig and Mollie on the MOVE when I'm with her, my 'free' time has almost become nil. And I have zero complaints, loving it!! ;)

As I write this, I'm sitting down for the first time this am and Molls is napping--I was a bit terrified about an hour ago when Mollie didn't want to go down for her usual AM nap about 9:00...she still wanted to play. I was afraid the dreaded 'dropped AM nap' had hit us! Assuming that it begins with the time being pushed back and well, here we are almost 1.5 hours later. I totally adore being with Mollie all day on weekends, but I'll happily admit I adore those 2 daytime naps she takes too...that's my time to really get myself ready for the day, clean the house, prepare/organize food for the weekend and weekdays ahead, check email, etc. I am already beginning to mourn the loss of the 2st nap..and we're not quite there yet!

I wanted to update y'all with a few good pics from recent playtimes and outings;) Mollie is SUCH a fun age and stage right now, words and jabber are all the time and girl likes to move! She's been swiftly crawling for a while now and started to pull up a few weeks ago..now we're definitely cruising the furniture, stand on our own a little, etc. Soooo cute!!

We're excited to celebrate the 4th of July with friends & family this weekend and all relatives come this next week for the birthday festivities that will drag out for many days--haha! Happy & safe 4th everyone!!!!!!

Sharing a crepe at the Farmer's Market--and trying to stay cool!!

She loves to launch everything out of her crib when she wakes in AM or nap!

Out & about all day and BOTH M and Matt crashed out in the car! Must be nice..haha

Between she & the cats, boxes are very popular around our house!

Movin' on up! (to the big girl seat)

2011-06-22T15:24:00.000-04:00

We're trying Mollie out in her new big girl car seat!! I'm well aware that sure some of you are thinking, 'wait don't you do that at 1 year?' and others of you who know about every recall and baby alert out there, are saying 'nooooo AAP now said to wait to change car seats at year TWO!' Please don't put me in the 'bad mother's club.' On the other hand, many of my friends have been encouraging that they did this even earlier than 11.5 months!

Either way, Molls was NOT going to last much longer in her infant type car seat, for a few reasons. One, since she's rear facing her feet are pretty much hitting the seat--I can only imagine how uncomfortable that is! Two, she was on her last leg of that reclined baby seat and not being able to see anything. Even the rides to/from Jojo's house started to become a headache. We'd already purchased our seats & figured she's over the suggested 20 lbs and just dying to sit upright and face forward, so let's give it a shot! Our pediatrician was giving us the go-ahead in a couple weeks anyways;) Low & behold, we have a NEW child in the car with us!!! I swear she smiled the whole ride & continues to do so--doesn't want to miss a beat. Guess she is a BIT like me after all;)

(In dad's car) Forgive the paci..she only gets it at night, but I was covering my bases with this new arrangement:)

(In mom's car) My sweetie!!

Beach babe!

2011-06-11T20:05:00.000-04:00

Today was our first day this year, to step foot onto our Charleston beach!! (We've been to Myrtle Beach, but not our own backyard!) How can that be?! For the long wait, it was welllllll worth it and SUCH a blast!!!

We started the beach excursion by stopping off at Jack's Cosmic Dogs for a quick bite and to see the new James Island location--just as awesome, if not better, than the Mt. P one. We're gunna have to go back for an ice cream or shake next time!!

Our last beach visit to Myrtle had us a little timid to go back on the beach with her. Granted this was a couple months ago as she was a bit younger. She was fussy out there, her nose got stuffy and she was just not really a happy camper. I couldn't believe MY child was not obsessed with the beach--how is that possible?? Well, I'm delighted to say after today, she is a beach babe!! I knew she had it in her. My sweetie.

Any of you moms know that anytime you leave your house, you have to take everything including the kitchen sink for baby. Even with Mollie being 11+ months, I still am scared to not have something she might need. We of course had the beach plan pretty thought out ahead of time; knowing what we wanted to bring, thinking about her fave toys & adding in a few new surprises for her, but we also thought a little out of the box. We have these great party tubs that we use for chilling drinks at home gatherings and figured, hey, let's make this a little pool on the beach!! Mollie LOVES the water, so we knew this would buy us some time if/when she got tired of the beach, but we weren't--haha.

Happy as a clam!

Kicked back, feet propped--just as the beach should be!

I think Matt & I just hit upon something brilliant--who's with me?! You carry your things down to the beach in this tub, THEN your baby plays in it. Yeah, like I said, brilliant;) Highly recommend this for you with kids age 6mths-1 year!

As we play in the sand a bit, I was so excited to see what M would do with the rush of waves--the girl loves a little adrenaline rush (to be rough housed, to be flipped upside down, etc). The waves came up to us way faster than expected, as you see here Matt & I both reached in to hold her from tipping over & she just has this look like BRING IT! Great..a little daredevil girl.

I was a bit afraid that she'd hate the sand and freak out if it was on her-totally not the case. Little did I know she'd want to eat the wet sand AND even make a gigantic mess. I mean, I should have known because she loves being messy with her food--what the heck kinda shape is her 1st birthday smash cake gunna be in?! I already feel sorry for that poor cake.

Prissy little girl?? I think not...just another example to support the many others! LOVE HER.

Fun in the Sun!

2011-06-02T14:25:00.000-04:00

What a lovely, long Memorial Day weekend we had and hope y'all did as well:) We went to Hilton Head for a few days, which was great in many ways and 'interesting' in others. Haha.

We chose our hotel because it was beachfront, had a great pool and yeah...a tiki bar at the pool! Baby or no baby, Matt & I are still suckers for a pool-side bar:) Needless to say, on Memorial Day weekend...at a hotel with a tiki bar..and a baby, we didn't quite fit in. There were a couple others kids at the pool, but 95% of hotel guests and boozers were college kids. There I was in my bikini, holding a 10 month old with one arm and a cold beer with my other. My, how things change in just a short year or so! In the most AMAZING way I never knew possible!!! Swimming around with her in our floatie, listening to live music and sharing in a wonderful holiday weekend with my two favorite people made me enjoy the time for sure!

Lunch at Salty Dog

Chillin' at the hotel pool

Later at night was a different story...do you remember how late you stayed up when you were in college?? Now, do you remember how you acted on holiday weekends...in a beachfront hotel?! That's what I thought. Us and baby Mollie were no match for the drunken banter in the hallways ALLLLLL night long. Ha, I couldn't even call the front desk because I was afraid if I moved too much and rummaged around the room, Mollie would wake up and that could be a disaster. I'm still not sure how she slept in her pack n' play through all that ruckus, but she did. Alas Matt and I, not even a wink, well ok, maybe a few blinks. So much for 'vacation' huh? We did have fun..but these 'Motherhood Whoa's' sure do teach me a lot..and sometimes make me feel old. Here's to 30 years young!!!

Takin' a swim break..girl could live in water!!

Wheeeeeeee!!

Let the games begin!

2011-05-24T13:56:00.000-04:00

Who knew that month 10 would bring about sooo many wild & exciting happenings with Mollie! Girl is on the move and running her lips! I'll confess that one of my last posts was about her being on the move...I guess I didn't really know what that meant. I didn't fully grasp what a crawler will do your house and life until it REALLY started this past weekend. No more turning around for a second, the girl takes off and those wheels are just spinning:)

All of a sudden her communication is outstanding She's been saying 'Da-Da' for a while now and while quite vocal, no true words. Not anymore! We have 'Ba-Ba' for bottle, 'baby' for her babydoll Rosie, 'ball' 'book' and even 'bubbles!' Obviously she has her 'B's' nailed down:) Matt & I nearly feel out of our chairs when we were blowing bubbles on Sunday in the back yard and she belted out with 'bu-bles'--it was sooooo stinkin' CUTE!

After returning home from a fun weekend in Myrtle Beach, we then proceeded to REALLY child-proof the house. The socket plugs went in, I switched living room rugs with mom to have a softer one on her knees, other than my sisal and even put up the new Amazon purchase that is totally awesome, the baby gate with a pet door so the cats can get to their area, but Molls can't. LOVE IT!!!!

So, the games have officially begun...and we are having a blast!!!!! *Check back with me in a couple weeks & see if my enthusiasm and sanity are still around:)

**I just had to throw this pic in...Pops let Mollie play with his Blackberry & she was in hog heaven!

Girl's got some moves!!

2011-05-16T08:30:00.001-04:00

This was a weekend of moves, to say the least!! Mollie is on a roll!

Saturday morning, after a much-successful C4W Purse Auction the night before (yayyy!), Matt, Molls & I along with 4 other friends had our first 'Water Babies' swim lesson~ ok, I know you're going, um, Mollie's not old enough for swim lessons. Alas my friends, according to our fabulous swim instructor Lindsey Ballenger, the sooner you get them acclimated to the water, getting their head wet, etc, the more comfortable they will be when it does come time to actually learn HOW to swim. Makes sense to me!

We sang some songs, splashed around & even went under water a few times!! It was so nerve-wracking for us parents to think about dunking our baby, but everyone did great! Lindsey was a wonderful teacher and made us all feel super comfortable. As she said 'the class was a success; no tears, no rain & no poops in the pool.' Couldn't have said it better myself, haha;)

Saturday afternoon, Molls & I were playing on the floor in the living room and all of a sudden the girl got on all fours and was starting to crawl! What the %^&*?!?! I know she can roll just about anywhere she wants and she'll also scoot herself wherever or spin on her hiney in a 360, but crawling?! Man..I wasn't ready for that! Jojo..are you ready for her this week??! ;)

I called mom & dad to hurry over to the house & Matt to come in the living room--such a trip to watch this lil peanut get around all by herself! Fast forward to Sunday and now she wants to pull herself up! Nooooo, haha!

The time has come, my little girl is now mobile. Let the baby-proofing really begin and the exhaustion really set in. As crazy as it is to watch her grow, it's absolutely incredible to watch her grow & learn. As I told a friend today, it makes me want maternity leave to be NOW, not when your baby can't do anything!

Sunday afternoon, we met up with Matt's friend John, his wife Kelly and their precious little girl Maya, who is 3 months younger than Mollie. They live in Chicago and are on IOP for the week on vacay. Not only have I never met John or Kelly, I swear we've talked via email & facebook probably over 100 times like we're lifelong friends! John is a regular blog reader (thanks bud!!) and soon after Maya was born, the new parent questions began--breastfeeding tips, sleeping issues, etc. The rest is history and we FINALLY got to spend time with our families together and celebrate our successes of survival!! There were def times I think we all questioned our sanity..but that's what friends are for right?! John & Kelly, cheers to our sweet girls and the lifelong friendship among us from here on out~ xoxo

A special weekend

2011-05-09T08:30:00.017-04:00

What a fabulous Mom's weekend to share with my amazing mom and amazing daughter-- Blessed to have a mom that's my best friend and to be a mom now, thanks to Molls:)

Saturday we headed out to the Firefly Distillery & Irvin~House Vineyard for the 'Sippin Saturday' event. Locals, if you haven't been GO. Out of towner's, make sure to put this stop in your next trip. Wadmalaw is just beautiful to say the least.
At the Vineyard & Distillery, we sampled their flavored vodkas mmmm, ate some Home Team BBQ & collards mmmm and finished the day sightseeing the grounds, farm animals and listening to some guitar pickin' out there.

First sight of the animals

lil rascal trying to grab my shot glass!

giddy up..

Sunday, we started the day with a lovely breakfast compliments of the darlin' husband; French toast, turkey bacon, scrambled eggs & fresh fruit--my faves!!

Early afternoon we headed down to 2nd Sunday on King Street, one of my favorite free things to do in town. Ideal for a little stroll & some ice cream:)

I love my family!

We finished the afternoon with a backyard swim including our friends, Lauren & Nicole. Perfect way to cool down after being hot downtown!! :)

Best friends!

Splashed herself silly

What a FUN weekend with those I love the most--thanks mom, dad, Matt & Mollie for making it a memorable first Mother's Day! xoxoxo

Friday Loves!

2011-05-06T11:13:00.000-04:00

My Friday Love post is alllll about Mollie! Um, well, the whole blog is all about that muchkin:) In honor of Mother's Day it got me thinking just how LUCKY I am to 1) be a mother to a healthy & thriving little girl and 2) be HER mother.

Today she is 10 months old- wow. Matt & I enjoy every second with her & it's been amazing to watch her grow, learn new things, become aware of new people and new surroundings and the list goes on.

A few things to summarize her latest antics:

She LOVES her friends at Jojo's house!! Matt & I swear that we have the only child ever, who's excited for their parents to leave them in the mornings. Haha. I know she adores us, I'm not saying that, but it truly warms my heart that she LOVES other people, especially other kids:)

Mollie's officially a Garrett-- she could NOT get enough of the Costco samples!! On the menu last weekend were whole-grain crackers, mini spinach florentine quiche and whole grain pancakes. They must have known we were all 3 coming & decided upon kid-friendly foods:) The girl had seconds of each item..when it was quiche time & I was holding it breaking off pieces for her, she didn't want me out of her sight. I agree sista, a quiche is delish!

We had a lovely family Easter in Myrtle Beach! She's not yet a beach baby (didn't love the sand on her hands) but have a feeling that will change..she's not really going to have a choice:) We love the beach!

I hope everyone has a wonderful Mother's Day weekend. Whether you've given birth to a child or play the mother role to someone in your life, CELEBRATE-- you deserve it!!!

xoxo

Friday Loves

2011-04-29T15:04:00.000-04:00

Is this blog going to turn into just 'Friday Loves?!' NO. I haven't posted anything in a week, though...oops.

The Royal Wedding. Enough said. I was SOOO OVER the news coverage this past week & not hearing anything new or interesting, but that all changed at 5:45 this morning when I watched the beautiful Kate Middleton leave her hotel to get into the car taking her to the wedding ceremony. Gives me chills to think about that moment. All brides remember that moment leading up to our ceremony; just magical. I think my favorite part of the coverage was seeing her ride with her dad to the wedding. So touching and she was a total natural. Welcome Princess Kate, you've earned that title! *I'll also add that I'm glad she's a brunette:)

I was so flattered to be a guest blogger on Style Concierge today! Lee asked me some money saving & coupon questions & I had a fun time thinking about them:) Hope you'll enjoy and learn something maybe. *Lee is also offering a FREE 20 minute style consult via phone, so email her today to get started. I did mine with her & got some great organization & closet tips. Since it's over the phone, you can live anywhere! :)

Again, on the coupon theme, I love Harris Teeter Super Doubles! I went this AM for a quick, but productive trip en route to work. had my list made, my coupons organized and a plan for my day--that is until I got to my car & realized I didn't have my cell phone! Lovely. I knew I had it in the meat section because I text Matt about some fresh chicken wings that were on sale..beyond that I had no clue!!! Of course I left my name with customer service and PLEADED with them to help. A few hours later they called me at work and had FOUND it! Now, that's some good customer service. * I pick it up this afternoon, and sooo curious to know just where they found it. Please Lord, don't let it have been lying in the meat section...

And this is NOT a Friday Love, but feel the need to support my Sweet Home Alabama. If anyone can help in South Alabama or donate in SC, I'll gladly help organize things. Here is a link to a drop off and there's a ton more!! PLEASE do what you can, so many people are suffering.
- Animals who need to be fostered or re-located
-Pictures & Documents that were found in the storms and need to be placed with their owners.

A reminder to be grateful for all that we have and all that we are given--nothing is to be taken for granted.

Friday Loves!

2011-04-22T08:15:00.004-04:00

Welcome to the 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version or my inspiration Katie!

Ahhh Jack Roger's has come out with a JELLY version of their awesome shoe! Perfect for the beach & pool without ruining the original (leather) ones!! I know Brooke & Katie are going ga-ga over these....

Tiny baby was just 7 weeks here!

On that same note, our lovely Easter weekend will be spent beaching it or poolside the ENTIRE time. Mollie gets to go swimming for the first time!! Her bathing suits are packed (yes plural, we have to have options) and swim floatie is ready. We're not scheduled to have our first official swim lesson until mid-May, so hope Mollie can hang;) Haha.

My mom is SUCH a crafty & thrifty woman --they bought this old, but lovely potential home here in Charleston that used to the be original West Ashley Post Office. How charming is that??! With the history in mind and the fact that my mom is a super recycle gal and has been waaay before this 'trend', she wanted to keep with the natural look and feel of the house & that she did. Kudos mom...great job!!!

Last, but not least, I've taken on a fun, new side venture & am now a Stella & Dot Stylist!! If you haven't seen the jewelry, check it out! I'm tempted by almost every single piece. I hope y'all will support me by encouragement, purchasing OR by hosting a trunk show & earning FREE jewelry!! (Most hosts take home $250 worth of free goods!) I have one show already lined up for Cinco de Mayo & cannot wait to mix some margs with these jewels:) So much fun!!
Since my job at Center for Women is so fabu & I love helping women, this seemed like a natural fit. Once I read about the S & D Foundation, I was in. My day job mission is to 'Help Women Succeed. Everyday.' Now my hobby mission is 'Behind every great woman is another woman.' Amen to that!

My lil' Bunny!

2011-04-18T10:52:00.000-04:00

We had a wonderful weekend in Charleston despite the forecast for HORRID weather on Saturday--not a drop of rain & beautiful blue, sunny skies!

Mollie had an eventful weekend and was quite the social butterfly:)

Saturday we went to my friend Melissa's church to meet the Easter Bunny & then had lunch at Sesame with some friends. Their church puts on the most wonderful events for children! We also did the breakfast with Santa there in December & it was awesome. Great Santa, fun activities for the kiddos and even great food! All for free. So very nice of them to do.
Not much was different for celebrating Easter either--the Bunny was super cute, the kids had a ton to do & of course there was an overload of sweets to enjoy! Mollie actually did okay with Mr. E. Bunny...no tears!

Hippity Hop!

Heading out to meet E. Bunny!

I love this pic! She's not quite sure what to make of him...

On Sunday we went to brunch with my dear friend Courtney, who was in town from NYC. I was excited about trying this new place, Leaf, but to my dismay apparently 'brunch' only happens on Saturday..when they are open! Y'all know I'm a planner, but alas, this place has no working telephone number, nor do they have a website OR a facebook pace, so I couldn't call ahead or pick out my meal in advance--the audacity of them;)
We quickly chose a Plan B, which was Fleet Landing & possibly an even better choice. We sat on the deck overlooking the harbor, watched the sailboats during Race Week, noshed on delicious seafood and sipped Bloody Mary's. Now that's a perfect Sunday morning!
I was enjoying my time sooo much, I forgot to take pics! Those in Charleston can envision the setting & those of you not here, well....you just need to come & visit!!!

Friday Loves

2011-04-15T09:32:00.000-04:00

Welcome to the 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version or my inspiration Katie!

Our friends, Ben & Jess, just started a new company in Charleston, Tavers Flavors, making local, fresh BABY FOOD! We are soooo excited about this & cannot wait to see what great things come their way. Matt & I are very good about making Mollie a ton of food from scratch & she has quite the taste-buds:) Although not everyone has the time or know how to make their own healthy baby food, Ben & Jess are here to help!

They will be participating in the Farmer's Market every Saturday, so PLEASE stop by and say hello! *They are also asking for some for some of your baby's favorite flavor combos, so feel free to shoot them an email & let your ideas be heard!

Oh me, oh my --a daily deal site featuring Etsy vendors called Heartsy! I feel my wallet getting thinner as I write this..Love love the beautiful & creative items we soon shall see:)

I know summer is on the horizon when my most favorite beer makes it's appearance on store shelves. Ahhhh, it's wonderful to see you again Son of A Peach!

Mommy's Job

2011-04-11T13:30:00.000-04:00

For the record, I'm not a fan of email forwards. They're usually pretty lame & never worth the time it takes me to read them. Usually. I am not lying when I say I opened this email from my dear friend Sarah & laughed out loud!! Hope this brings a smile & laugh to your Monday, as well:)

A first grade girl handed in the drawing below for her homework assignment.

The teacher graded it and the child brought it home. She returned to school the next day with the following note:

Dear Ms. Davis,
I want to be perfectly clear on my child's homework illustration. It is NOT of me on a dance pole on a stage in a strip joint surrounded by male customers with money. I work at Home Depot and had commented to my daughter how much money we made in the recent snowstorm. This drawing is of me selling a shovel!

Friday Loves

2011-04-09T13:54:00.000-04:00

Welcome to the 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version or my inspiration Katie!

My newest blog read Aunt Peaches. The name alone caught my attention, but oh how her 'About this Blog' and 'FAQ's' just spoke to me, not the mention the hilarity of the image above. What a hoot-LOVE it! I adore blogging for the sheer fact of people enjoying your random & personal thoughts. This gal has some serious creativity on a dime that I'll soon obsess over, I'm sure.

Farmer's Market opens this weekend!!! My sweet cousin, Jennifer, her hubby Scott & their 3 boys are coming into town so Mollie & I are meeting them there. I sure do enjoy spending our Saturday mornings gathering fresh veggies, homemade goods and running into friends.

Matt is still working his fanny off at Family Circle Cup this weekend, as well, so it's a girls weekend for me & Molls!!

Fun at the park last weekend!


Little Ham!

Hope you all enjoy the beautiful weekend ahead!! xo

Happy 9 Months!

2011-04-06T11:22:00.000-04:00

Our little sweetie is 9 months today! Wow. 9 months of growing in my tummy and now 9 months of growing in my arms. So very, very much to be thankful for.

It's insane to think we're 3/4 through her first year. That gets me thinking...I now need to really get moving on planning the 1st Birthday Party. (Haha y'all know I've already partially begun!)

Happy 9 Months Mollie!!

Friday Loves

2011-04-01T09:02:00.001-04:00

Welcome to the 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version or my inspiration Katie!
I have been soooo out of the loop this week with Strep! Ugh, thank GOD that's behind me:) Happy to be back in the real world and TGIF!

I love..

The Lowcountry Cajun Festival! Such a fun, family friendly day outdoors and great excuse to eat crawfish & drink beer, all while listening to some ragin' cajun music. Cannot think of a better way to spend my Sunday!

Lunch today with one of my best friends, Kendra, at the OHHH SO DELISH Black Bean Co. I'm not lying when I say I crave this place. Often. Their food, and especially tzatziki sauce, is outta control good.

The Easter basket I made for my friend's little girl! She ALMOST purchased one from a drug store--no way I was gunna let that happen:) No little girl should be without a beautiful Easter basket...anyone else interested?

Family Circle Cup Pro tennis tournament starts this Saturday! This all-female tournament showcases some top seeded world players. This year we'll see Maria Sharapova, Melanie Oudin (from GA!), Marion Bartoli and defending champ Sam Stosur, as well as many others. No Williams sisters this year, though. As a long time tennis player (& long time SINCE I've played) I always love going to this week-long event. The energy is outstanding, the matches are entertaining and it's a happening spot for happy hour, mingling & even live music. Perfect spot to meet friends & get to enjoy the lovely weather we'll be having. Hope to see you out there!

P.S. Center for Women is also hosting a luncheon in the FCC Sky Suite if you are interested in joining us- 2 tickets for just $100! It's one of my favorite events that we offer:) Don't miss out.

Hope everyone has a wonderful & beautiful weekend ahead-- Happy April:) So excited spring is here.

Friday Loves

2011-03-25T08:30:00.001-04:00

Welcome to the 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version or my inspiration Katie!

I love....

The fact that Mollie is ALMOST as excited as we are for our new veggie garden to start producing some goods! Mmmmm tomatoes:)

M's new Easter Basket! Kudos to Charleston Children's Boutique. I LOVE that shop! I cannot wait to start the tradition of egg hunts together:) Each year she'll have her basket to get lots of goodies & memories to make. We're now ready to go to Gigi & Poppy's house at the beach for Easter weekend:)

These crazy good granola bars! When my body and I were adjusting to nursing Mollie, I was always STARVING, Who am I kidding, nursing made me hungry alll the time for months & months but really didn't have the feeling of wanting much--except ice cream & both of these granola bars! I kept them next to my chair in her room, in the remote basket in the living room, in her diaper bag, next to my bed--everywhere I might be, there were my granola bars:)
I had kind of forgotten about these peanut ones specifically until our Costco girl, Natalie, brought them to a Center for Women event. They made me smile. Oh how I adored these peanut bars.

Our new backyard blow up pool for Mollie to splash in! Oh snap...how cute is this?! Just $9.99 on Amazon, we couldn't pass it up. And elephants just make me think ROLL TIDE, too:)
M was born in July and right before she arrived I had the thought and the plan of purchasing a blow up (or plastic) kiddie pool to have her hang out in that summer while I worked on my laptop. What the &^*% was I thinking???! Gah, I was an idiot. I no more wanted to take my newborn out into the blistering heat or did I have the time to 'lounge' much. Ha, oh the wishful thinking of new parents! This summer I look forward to MANY days lounging poolside and in the sun..with protective sunscreen and sunhats, of course;)

When one door closes...

2011-03-22T14:31:00.000-04:00

Myself, Matt & Mollie we're originally scheduled to go to Alabama this past weekend for the first time since Mollie was born! When those plans quickly changed last week, I was left sad & wondering why I was not able to go down there, see my best friend's new baby, introduce Mollie to many new friends and see family. When it was a done deal that we weren't going, I had to stay positive & have faith it was for a reason. Now was just not the right time.

In Mollie's almost 9 months of life, she hasn't once had a fever or been sick...until this past weekend. I feel so blessed that overall Mollie is a healthy little girl and I knew sooner or later some germs would start to enter our family. She had a high temps (103.5 at it's highest), almost total loss of appetite, trouble sleeping and some inconsolable crying. None of that is the Mollie we know & love!!! 3 days & nights of this and seeing your sweet baby suffer will just about define your feelings of unconditional love. I would have done ANYTHING to make her pain stop. It totally broke my heart and Matt was so worried about his little girl!! I took her to the doctor yesterday and it's a virus called Hand, Foot & Mouth disease. The name alone sounds horrible!! It's apparently spread by infected people and the kids putting things in their mouths, etc..Imagine that?!! M puts everything in her mouth. The doctor identified it by some spots on her feet & sores/spots in her mouth. He (and my online research) said that some carriers or infected persons might not even know they have it, therefore unknowingly spreading it. Yikes. Just another reason to please, please have your children vaccinated! So, my week and next weekend will consist of disinfecting my house and all Mollie's things. What fun, right?! Again, I'd do ANYTHING to keep that girl of mine safe & healthy.

It hit me about mid-weekend that oh my gosh, what would've happened if we were in Alabama?! We planned to arrive there Thursday evening. How would we have functioned with a very sick little girl, plans with family, playing with new babies and not to mention the 10+ hour car ride to AND from!? We all have to stay optimistic that when one door closes, another one opens. While this might not always be apparent or come as quickly as you would've hoped, I like to think that the other door will open in it's own time & when the time is right.

**Today, Mollie seems much better. Thank you for your thoughts and well wishes! Her sitter JoJo told me earlier that she's eating close to normal and actually laughing some--now THAT is the Mollie we know & adore:)

Friday Loves

2011-03-18T09:00:00.007-04:00

Welcome to the 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version or my inspiration Katie!

Matt is the sweetest dad & makes Mollie some DELISH roasted veggies every week (and then some). Her faves included zucchini, yellow squash & butternut squash.

The beautiful Ravenel Bridge here in Charleston. Although I've lived here for 11 years now, this new bridge of ours makes me fall in love with this city over & over. Cruising over the bridge in this amazing weather we've been having just forces you to roll down your windows, open the sunroof and blast your favorite song!

Prince. Need I say more?! Well, yes actually...Matt & I will be seeing him LIVE March 30th!! Few artists can record music that’s timeless, and Prince is right there front and center! It will be a concert not to be forgotten and a once in a lifetime opportunity. Pop culture junkies, we'll see you there!!

A Day of Quotes

2011-03-16T12:46:00.000-04:00

For some reason, today has been a day of excellent quotes -- I wanted to share them, along with some thoughts. Feel free to share your thoughts with me as well!

"In spite of the six thousand manuals on child raising in the bookstores, child raising is still a dark continent and no one really knows anything. You just need a lot of love and luck- and, of course, courage." -Bill Cosby

Before you become a mom & even after you are a mom, books that will hopefully tell you all that you need to know, are referenced time & time again. I will say that from each book I've read, I feel that I have learned something, but as my friend reminded me on Facebook this morning, most child care books are a 'one size fits all' and that is NOT the case for babies!

“Though I might travel afar, I will meet only what I carry with me, for every man is a mirror. We see only ourselves reflected in those around us. Their attitudes and actions are only a reflection of our own. The whole world and its condition has its counter parts within us all. Turn the gaze inward. Correct yourself and your world will change.” -Kirsten Zambucka

I've always been aware that the company you keep IS a reflection of who you are or who you want to become. The people you associate yourself with do seem to speak volumes. As a younger girl, I sure didn't take this to heart--I liked to think that "just because so & so is my friend but makes bad choices, doesn't mean I will." This situation was not the norm for me thank goodness, but I was naive to think that smart people don't judge. Well, we ALL do and the older I get the more I think about friendships, who I want to be associated with & what I want to become. I want to hang around positive people who also inspire me to do more & be a better person/mom!

Thank God for what you have and trust him for what you need.

Amen! I'm sure who this actual quote is from, but my friend Nicole had it as her facebook status. This is SOOO true and an awesome daily reminder, actually. Thank you for this, Nicole.

Have a wonderful Wednesday, friends!

Sittin' Pretty

2011-03-14T14:50:00.000-04:00

How can each day with Mollie get more & more fun?! We played outside a ton this weekend, with temps in the high 70's.

Molls helped Matt plant his vegetable garden, she & I went downtown to Second Sunday on King St and Aunt Julie arrived in town!

Just a few fun pics from the weekend:)

I heart my new chair!!


Snugglebug on Mimi

Listening to the violinists play on King St

If you love Mollie's precious bird onesie & bloomers, as much as I do, they are from Too Cute! Our family friend, Connie makes custom baby/kids clothing and at VERY reasonable prices for quality work (note: this set is just $20!). She also has a 'Buy 3, get 1 Free' deal, which is perfect for monogrammed or appliqued burp cloths, bibs, onesies, etc for shower gifts!! *She can ship anywhere, too.

Friday Loves

2011-03-11T10:11:00.000-05:00

Welcome to the new 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version & my inspiration, or Katie!

I am coveting this cupcake maker!! Yes, I already have about 3 small & regular size cupcake tins, but I want THIS.

Mollie is now the proud owner of her own Adirondack chair! Of course in her most flattering color, Lavender:) We look forward to lounging together in the back yard in our own respective chairs.

Throw me somethin' Mister!!

If I couldn't be home for Mardi Gras at least I could indulge in the food! Matt made some yummy Jambalaya and thank you to Publix for the spot-on King Cake! Super close 2nd to the real deal in Mobile..

It's always a bit tough to leave your little one with a sitter, but this Activities Tracker can show you what you missed while away! Look forward to trying this out soon.

2nd Sunday on King is this weekend!! My sister Julie flies into town that afternoon, so we'll def be there. Yayy Aunt Julie!! If you are in Charleston & have yet to experience 2nd Sunday, please do. This is another reason I adore this city, it really is. To have the hub of downtown closed to cars is brilliant. If only this would be EVERY Sunday:)

*If you go, don't forget to take advantage of the FREE PARKING in city garages, by printing this voucher.

Last but DEF not least... I entered my sweet sweet mom, Peggy, into a contest called 'Mom's Slice of Paradise' through a local radio station Y102.5 and SHE WON!!!!! I attended an event they held, did a 30+ second video clip on the spot there about how wonderful she is, they uploaded it on their website and then we had to get out the word to vote! I sent emails to a ton of friends and family friends who adore mom and yep...they think the same as we do --she is the BEST mom and most selfless person I know.

The package included a hot tub from Paradise Pools & Spa, $750 credit to Window World of Charleston and fabulous, pampering gifts from Carolina Girls and $250 to Carolina Hair Designs.

Thank you to everyone who voted!!!! Cannot wait to surprise her with this!!! :)

Hope everyone has an awesome weekend --look forward to getting out & enjoying the 70+ degree weather!!

Mollie & Da-Da night away

2011-03-08T14:17:00.000-05:00

A guest post from Matt!!!!

With Leigh Ann having a weekend full of activities, I decided to take Mollie up to Surfside Beach to visit Poppy and Gigi. I've had the day w/ her solo, but never a full night away. I'm sure there was some nervousness all around. She could not have been more pleasant or easier, thank goodness On the drive up, you would have never known she was even in the car, of course that all goes with the timing (of eating). We arrived into town, stopped off at the soccer store and bought a Liverpool scarf, visited Poppy at work, and then went to lunch at Gordon Biersch in the Market Commons shopping area.

After lunch, back to the house so Mollie could get in a nap. Later in the afternoon, a brief visit to the beach, we were stopped by the rain. Although she loved the wind in her face!

So, then came the hard part.....bedtime. I figured it would be a bit difficult because she's now starting to get some separation anxiety from time to time. Going to bed in a strange room could be tough for her. She went to bed so easily and lasted for almost 4 hours, then shortly afterward the cries came. After attempting to get her to go back down I decided to go ahead and bring her to bed with me. It could have been a disaster, but after a few minutes of getting adjusted, we both crashed and the next thing I know I'm waking up around 6:30 am and look over to a pair of tiny little eyes staring at me. Who knows how long she was doing that!

Mollie probably is quite a bit more adaptable than we give her credit for -- Now let's see how the 10+ hour (one way) car ride & 3 nights in a new place work out next week when we head down to Alabama!

Teeth have arrived!

2011-03-07T11:36:00.000-05:00

Mollie's two bottom teeth are both popping through!! At the SAME time!!!

M loves to chew on my thumb when I'm holding her & it keeps her from chewing on my necklace or other piece of jewelry that entices her that given day. Friday after work when she did it I could feel a little something on the bottom gum! Just 3 short days later and TA-DA! 2 bottom teeth have really begun to make their appearance:) Sooooo cute!

Teething is one of those catch-all excuses, I've come to realize--'Oh you had a bad night, she must be teething' or 'She puts everything in her mouth? She's definitely teething.' I find that so funny. Yes, maybe she has been teething for a while, but I don't think so. ALL babies put things in their mouths! ALL babies drool. And yes, hate to say it, ALL babies have some bad nights here & there.

Of all the baby milestones, I'm not quite sure why I'm overjoyed with emotion in seeing the beginning of her pearly-whites. I guess they're a clear indicator that she's really growing up. She's been having some rough nights the past week+ and guess now we can really trace it back to teething. She would wake a few times in the night & sometimes I would have to pick her up, settle her back down, give her paci and then she'd be ready for sleep again. Some nights required a little baby Tylenol! Poor thing needed some cheese with that whine;)

Last night I went into her room about 1:30am and as I came back to bed I told Matt, as hard as it is to have poor sleep and be woken up by a baby in the night, I'm SUCH a sucker for a snuggle. There really is hardly anything like that sweet child snuggled up to you, rubbing cheeks, & hearing her take those soft breaths, knowing she is comforted by your touch & love. No matter the time of day, I always try and enjoy that time we share together. Yep, it might make us a little sleep deprived, but who cares (and we've learned to deal!)--I'm just embracing these baby moments while we still have them.

Yippee for those first two teeth--congrats Mollie!!!

Friday Loves!

2011-03-04T11:18:00.001-05:00

Welcome to the new 'It's Friday, I'm in Love' series! Join Summer for her version & my inspiration, or Katie!

I'm loving my newly pedicured toes. I was way over-due. Makes me wish Spring would hurry a little faster to wear more of my open-toe shoes. And go to the beach!!

A good Craigslist find! Came across a woman in West Ashley with a TON of nice, gently used baby/kids clothes for 50 cents to $1 EACH! I'm talking about Pixie Lily, OshKosh, etc.You know I was in heaven. Got this whole bag, full of cute summer clothes & a few toys/books for only $35. That's how I like to shop:)

Free Printables --just look at how PRESH some of these are!! Add a beautiful store-bought frame & voila! A great way to spend very little and have a nice baby (or other) gift. I'm mildly obsessed.

And my biggest love, Mollie:)

Good, Bad & The Ugly

2011-03-03T12:21:00.000-05:00

It's been an interesting week--good & bad:) My sweet friend Katie & her awesome blog inspired me to start trying a 'Good, Bad & Ugly' post each week to sum up some happenings, so I'm working on that & looking for a button to signify the series, as well!

So, here's my first stab--enjoy!

Good: Today is Thursday, which means tomorrow is FRIDAY!
Bad: Although, not all BAD per se, I have very, very little free time this weekend. Like maybe a couple hours Sat pm & that's it.
Ugly: Matt & Mollie are going to Myrtle Beach for the night, just the two of them, on Saturday. What in the world will our house feel like without them?!!

Good: I got a free paint sample, trim roller & $5 off coupon in the mail from Valspar!
Bad: They were wasteful and FED-EX'd it to alllll 1,000 people daily. Sheesh, I didn't need my paint sample that badly, shipped over night.
Ugly: Mollie, with her 'Stretch Armstrong' reach, got a hold of the Fed-Ex sticky note and proceeded to eat it in .2 seconds. I fished out a few scraps from her mouth. Thank GOD she really didn't choke on it, but some was stuck in there & sure did make her puke it up.Oh my. All over me, her & my floors.

Yes, that is the piece of paper she ate, right in the middle of the yack--lovely I know, sorry to be graphic. She didn't seem to mind at all! Once I saw she was all smiles, I died laughing. Was that wrong?! The piece of paper in the puke sent me over the edge!

Good: Mollie has mastered sitting up.
Bad: She now likes to consider herself an independent woman (cue Beyonce)
Ugly: This is just one more step to her getting mobile & it scares me a little. I need to childproof my house VERY soon!!!

Good: I love turkey sandwiches, etc made on a pretzel roll--have you ever tried them?? A few restaurants in Charleston have them & I'm a sucker for them.
Bad: Our caterer that we use for work functions, apparently loves pretzels rolls as well and is letting me buy some off her!!!!
Ugly: This might just make me gain back all that baby weight I lost. My first shipment (of 16!) arrived today. Don't worry, I'm sharing with my sis's who are equally obsessed;)

Good: We met up with our dear friend Ryan Malloy last night, who was in town from LA on business
Bad: His wife, Alex, wasn't with him. Sooooo sad, one of my bf's & we haven't seen each other in a few years now:(
Ugly: Mollie likes happy hour just as much as we do...wait, why is that 'ugly?' Funny girl.

Let's take it outside!

2011-02-27T16:53:00.000-05:00

I'm no psychic, but I'm pretty sure I know what the next few months holds for us...

....PLAYING OUTSIDE!!!!!!

Mommy & Mollie Day!

2011-02-23T14:56:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was a rare treat. The day was just for Mollie & me! I woke up to find a text message from Mollie's sitter that she had injured her back & needed the day off to rest. My mind began to race, as I realized I didn't have my work laptop with me, nor my day planner--so what was on my work agenda that I needed to take care of?

I let Molls take her AM nap (which was very short- she must have known it was a vacation day for her) and then we headed downtown to my office to grab my stuff. Mollie took it upon herself to get a little work done while she was at the office, too. She's a working girl already!

'Workin' 9-5'

We then ventured to Matt's office to say hello to them. They hadn't seen her since October probably! She was tired by that point with a nothing of a morning nap, so then we headed home. Of course on the way, she crashed out. When we got to the house I couldn't bring myself to wake her, so I just worked in the car on my laptop, while she slept in her car seat. Oh, the things moms will do to be efficient, given any situation.

The weather was outstanding, so really we spent a large part of it outside on the patio. Gotta love a laptop with WiFi & some outdoor play toys!!!

Trying out our new toy!

I always welcome the reminder to enjoy the little things..I can't tell you the last day I had, just me & Mollie. At first I was flustered with my day being rearranged & then a smile quickly came to my face. A day with my daughter that otherwise would not have happened for a while. Even weekends, Matt & I spend a ton of time playing with her, but I've also worked or volunteered for something almost every Saturday recently it feels like, so I haven't been around much. Then add in house cleaning, doing laundry and the list goes on.
That Tuesday with me home, the house cleaning could wait. The laundry could be done after she went to bed for the night. I wanted the day to be about me & Mollie for once--and a GREAT time we had!!

And the first word is...

2011-02-20T20:40:00.000-05:00

DA-DA!! I knew she'd be a daddy's girl from day 1...now she's wrapped around Matt's finger even more! I love it!!!
On Saturday morning, I heard the first Da-da after she woke up & we were playing. I couldn't wait to tell Matt, as he was in the shower & was soooo hoping she'd say it again on the spot--haha, yeah right.

My mom & dad (Mimi & Pops) graciously gave us a night solo as our Valentine's gift, so we took them up on it Saturday evening. Matt and I wisked away to Savannah for the night. Such fun!! The temps were in the 70's and we couldn't wait to be outside all day, walking around, eating and spending some QT with one another. (Although we missed little peanut a ton!)


We just had to be tourists & eat lunch at Lady & Sons!


Great sport--put up with my 'antiquing' and even carried my purchases!

M wasn't too far..a GIANT Sophie!!

Sunday morning we woke up & I called mom to check in on how Molls was during the night. She says that Mollie woke up about 4am & she needed to go put paci back in...but when mom walked in, Mollie made eye contact with her and M said 'Da-Da!' loud and clear!! Ahhhhh! It's here to stay:)

Fast forward to Sunday evening & I'm getting Mollie's bathtub ready, Matt is getting her undressed in her room. She was in a full-on babble run so I told Matt to get ready, Da-Da will come! Sure enough...not even a few minutes later, there it was. He had heard his daughter say 'Da-Da' for the first time!! Talk about melt your heart. He was smitten even more:) Then I'm feeding her just before bed & she stops, looks up at me, smiles and says Da-Da-Da-Da-Da. Melted my heart. The love of my life is talking about the other love of my life!!

Almost 7.5 months now, she is taking major learning leaps all the time! I swear her abilities have been in overdrive the past few weeks. As I sit here now, I'm astounded that my baby Mollie has said her first word. Ok, she might not exactly know who/what Da-Da is or means, but she very shortly will. This is just the beginning:)

Happy Valentine's Day!

2011-02-14T13:36:00.000-05:00

I figured there's no better day to discuss love than on Valentine's Day! Not my favorite 'holiday' by any means, but I'll always welcome a day or moment to remember those whom I love and those who love me.

This website gave me some awesome thoughts & made me think about love lessons for Mollie. (Please check out the link)

As parents we truly are responsible for the actions and ways our children behave & respond to situations & feelings of love. I want Matt & I to be a shining example of love for Mollie. I want her to know that our house is full of love! Respect for each other, laughter and fun times, sharing things with each other, giving kisses and hugs and even helping each other out in various ways around the house or doing things.

Hope you all have a lovely Valentine's Day and remind the important people in your life that you love them...we all need to be told that from time to time! Everyone deserves someone to love them.

My Valentines--I love you two!!

Baby Currie!!

2011-02-11T20:46:00.000-05:00

Catherine Currie Cooper has made her debut into this world!! My best friend Sadie had her first little girl yesterday, Thursday, February 10. All are happy & healthy! 6lbs, 6oz and 19 inches long (Ahem, Mollie's size exactly!!) She is soooo precious!

It was/is so hard being in SC and she being in Alabama. I often get the homesick bug, but really do when my best friend has a baby and I'm not there with her & to smooch that angel to pieces.

I saw her pic, emailed Matt and said 'Awww I want another one!' Not fully being serious, but it's crazy how foreign that newborn stage seems now that Molls is 7 months old. Matt, being the great sport he is, said 'Let's at least wait so they can be in different grades.' Ha, love you Matt:)

We head to Fairhope mid-March to meet the new addition to the Cooper's and the newest addition to the Well's, sweet baby Stella. My best friends in Alabama have each recently had girls & I cannot wait until they can all play together. Or can I?!

Hello beautiful weekend!

2011-01-31T09:05:00.001-05:00

It hardly gets much better than a weekend in January with temps in the 70's, living in this beautiful city and getting to spend it with your favorite people.

With the weather this amazing, you forget it's January. Spring is still many weeks away, and 70+ degrees is a totally tease for those nice upcoming seasons and all that follows. Is it getting cold again?! Please tell me NO.

We tried to spend as much time outdoors as possible; cooking out, going for walks & even designating extra toys as being 'outside' ones from now on!

Mollie has a few 'firsts' this weekend too-- going to the park & swinging and also ordering off the Mexican restaurant menu!

I want to go to there!

Weeeeeeeee!

Her order was fresh sliced Avocado (her fave), NOT the Dos Equis beer..

This type of weekend makes me fall in love with Charleston, Matt & Mollie all over again (& again).

Call me a blog slacker..

2011-01-27T16:35:00.000-05:00

Eeks, it's been a while since I posted! January has quickly gotten away from me--y'all too???!! I have been so busy at work and we're kicking off a stellar year so far--selling out a number of programs this month already:) Yay Center for Women!! Let's hope January is an insight to the rest of 2011 for this great organization..

There seems to be a hamster wheel of ideas & thoughts going through my head--not sure why this wheel ceases to rest. I love being motivated and busy, but sheesh, at times it's been hard to wind down.

I was talking with different ladies over the course of this week & the same theme came up at least in 3 of my conversation: Work/Life Balance. I could go on & on about this, but we all seemed to agree that it constantly changes--it's an ever-evolving goal. What might work one week/month, might not work the next because of 'x.' That's why we women learn to become much more flexible with children!!

         Wherever you are – be all there.             Jim Elliot

We also make every effort to not bring work home or do other things when it's playtime. When we're at work, we work. When we're home with Mollie, we're with her. End of story. I've found myself ignoring this a few times, whether it was to clean the house, return a phone call, etc. Alas, I am only with her for a short period between work and her bedtime & Matt and I need to make the most of it. I can always do those things mentioned after she goes to bed...or during nap-time on the weekend!


I remember weeks ago when Mollie was waking up pretty early my AM routine before work was totally different than what it is now. You learn to adjust. Adapt. Things change. As much as I like a schedule and prefer to know what's to come at all times, there has to be some wiggle room as I've quickly learned from a little munchkin:) Mollie is just a delight & getting more fun by the day. I'm still in shock is going on 7 months next Sunday. o.m.g. how is that possible?!

Still loving our walks, cold weather & all!

Matt says this hat makes her look like a Russian baby!

A little R&R at a B&B

2011-01-10T12:50:00.000-05:00

Matt & I were given the wonderful opportunity to have a night away, just the two of us, since Mollie has entered our lives. We figured her 6 month mark and my 30th birthday would be the perfect excuse:) Mimi and Pops babysat her for the day/night and the rest was history...
We stayed on Folly Beach, about 10 miles from our house, at a lovely Bed &Breakfast called Water's Edge Inn. To be so close to home, yet feel so far away was just what the Doctor ordered.

As much as we've traveled, we've never stayed at a B&B and really didn't know what to expect--we had a fabulous time! Everything was top notch; service, rooms, amenities and beyond. Our room had an awesome marsh view, beautiful Key West decor and was appropriately named 'The Hemingway.'

Matt and I arrived to a lovely room, set our bags down, opened the porch door and just sat...in the dead quiet! We honestly didn't know what to do next- what was once our normal, now felt foreign. Ha! It didn't take us long to relax and enjoy our time alone, although even after just a couple hours of being away from Mollie we both missed her company--funny how that happens.

We went downstairs to enjoy the Inn's happy hour, taking place daily from 4-7. We indulged in some wine and their specialty cocktail 'Folly Punch' made with the yummy local Firefly Lemonade Vodka and cranberry juice-delish! Note: that vodka flavor can only be bought locally as it's made with fresh lemons & has a 6 month shelf life

After happy hour, we went to dinner at Rita's down the street. Wonderful burgers and my guilty pleasure, a FRESH marg!

Post our early dinner, Matt & I couldn't wait for our most anticipated B&B amenity--the hot tub!! Not only was it a perfectly cold night for an outdoor hot tub, the marsh view at sunset could not be beat. Just perfect!!

The next morning we awoke to a delightful breakfast, which we opted to have in bed--naturally:)

We had the most wonderful time spending some good quality time together, but we sure did miss our little munchkin. So thankful we were able to take this much needed little break--thanks to Mimi, Pops and Dawn at Water's Edge!! We truly had an awesome experience and highly recommend friends visit this spot:)

Thinking of Having Kids?

2011-01-07T11:34:00.000-05:00

A friend of Matt's just emailed this to me via Breastfeeding Basics website & I just HAD to share--Happy Friday everyone:)

Thinking of Having Kids?

Lesson 1

Go to the grocery store.
Arrange to have your salary paid directly to their head office.
Go home.
Pick up the paper.
Read it for the last time.

Lesson 2
Before you finally go ahead and have children, find a couple who already are parents and berate them about their:

Methods of discipline.
Lack of patience.
Appallingly low tolerance levels.
Allowing their children to run wild.

Suggest ways in which they might improve their child's breastfeeding, sleep habits, toilet training, table manners, and overall behavior. Enjoy it, because it will be the last time in your life you will have all the answers.

Lesson 3
To discover how the nights will feel:

Walk around the living room from 5PM to 10PM carrying a wet bag weighing approximately 8-12 pounds, with a radio turned to static (or some other obnoxious sound) playing loudly.
At 10PM, put the bag down, set the alarm for midnight, and go to sleep.
Get up at 12 and walk around the living room again, with the bag, until 1AM.
Set the alarm for 3AM.
As you can't get back to sleep, get up at 2AM and make a drink.
Go to bed at 2:45AM.
Get up at 3AM when the alarm goes off.
Sing songs in the dark until 4AM.
Get up. Make breakfast. Keep this up for 5 years.

Look cheerful.

Lesson 4
Can you stand the mess children make? To find out:

Smear peanut butter onto the sofa and jam onto the curtains.
Hide a piece of raw chicken behind the stereo and leave it there all summer.
Stick your fingers in the flower bed.
Then rub them on the clean walls.

Cover the stains with crayons. How does that look?

Lesson 5
Dressing small children is not as easy as it seems.

Buy an octopus and a small bag made out of loose mesh.
Attempt to put the octopus into the bag so that none of the arms hang out.

Time allowed for this - all morning.

Lesson 6

Take an egg carton. Using a pair of scissors and a jar of paint, turn it into an alligator.
Now take the tube from a roll of toilet paper. Using only Scotch tape and a piece of aluminum foil, turn it into an attractive Christmas candle.
Last, take a milk carton, a ping-pong ball, and an empty packet of Cocoa Puffs.
Make an exact replica of the Eiffel Tower.

Lesson 7

Forget the BMW and buy a mini-van. And don't think that you can leave it out in the driveway spotless and shining. Family cars don't look like that.

Buy a chocolate ice cream cone and put it in the glove compartment. Leave it there.
Get a dime. Stick it in the cassette player.
Take a family size package of chocolate cookies. Mash them into the back seat.
Run a garden rake along both sides of the car.

There. Perfect.

Lesson 8

Get ready to go out.
Wait outside the bathroom for half an hour.
Go out the front door.
Come in again.Go out.
Come back in.
Go out again.
Walk down the front path.
Walk back up it.
Walk down it again.
Walk very slowly down the road for five minutes.
Stop, inspect minutely, and ask at least 6 questions about every cigarette butt, piece of used chewing gum, dirty tissue, and dead insect along the way.
Retrace your steps.
Scream that you have had as much as you can stand until the neighbors come out and stare at you.
Give up and go back into the house.

You are now just about ready to try taking a small child for a walk.

Lesson 9

Repeat everything at least, if not more than, five times.

Lesson 10
Go to the local grocery store. Take with you the closest thing you can find to a pre-
school child. (A full- grown goat is excellent). If you intend to have more than one child, take more than one goat.
Buy your week's groceries without letting the goats out of your sight. Pay for everything the goat eats or destroys.
Until you can easily accomplish this, do not even contemplate having children.

Lesson 11

Hollow out a melon.
Make a small hole in the side.
Suspend it from the ceiling and swing it from side to side.
Now get a bowl of soggy Cheerios and attempt to spoon them into the swaying melon by pretending to be an airplane.
Continue until half the Cheerios are gone.
Tip half into your lap. The other half, just throw up in the air.

You are now ready to feed a nine- month old baby.

Lesson 12

Learn the names of every character from Sesame Street, Barney, Disney, the Teletubbies, and Pokemon. Watch nothing else on TV for at least five years.

Lesson 13

Move to the tropics. Find or make a compost pile. Dig down about halfway and stick your nose in it. Do this 3-5 times a day for at least two years.

Lesson 14
Make a recording of Fran Drescher saying "mommy" repeatedly. (Important: no more than a four second delay between each "mommy"; occasional crescendo to the level of a supersonic jet is required). Play this tape in your car everywhere you go for the next four years.
You are now ready to take a long trip with a toddler.

Lesson 15

Start talking to an adult of your choice. Have someone else continually tug on your skirt hem, shirt- sleeve, or elbow while playing the "mommy" tape made from Lesson 14 above. You are now ready to have a conversation with an adult while there is a child in the room.
(Author Unknown, but they must have had kids)
This is all very tongue in cheek, but as a mother of six, I can attest to the fact that there is a lot of truth in it. Share it with your friends, both those who do and don't have kids. I guarantee they'll get a chuckle out of it.
Remember, a sense of humor is one of the most important things you'll need when you become a parent.

Happy 1/2 Birthday!

2011-01-06T10:56:00.000-05:00

Happy 1/2 Birthday Mollie!! You are officially 6 months old today, my precious:)

Thinking back on my childhood & some of the normal and abnormal (in a good way!) things I was a part of, most every memory brings a smile to my face. I had a GREAT childhood. One thing that has always been a part of my life are half birthdays...little did I know, this is apparently not the norm. Ha!

With my birthday being January 3, that makes my half birthday July 3- so needless to say around the time of the 4th of July, there is always a party going on! We'd most likely be at the beach (Gulf Shores, AL) and I'd have friends with me & we'd wear ourselves out swimming in the Gulf or pool. Mom would always make a special cake for my half birthday and it was just another sweet day each year to look forward to.

I guess sometimes you don't realize how those simple memories or traditions will seep into your own children, but funny how they do. And yes...you probably WILL turn into your mother at some point:) Lucky for me, I'd be honored.

So, now is the time to celebrate Mollie's first half birthday - cupcakes are on the menu I think! The fun part is that she & I can share our real birthday cakes with each other for their 1/2 birthdays since we're just 3 days different:) If she'll share...

Matt & I have been blessed these past 6 months with a sweet & healthy baby girl, who is just growing before our eyes! At times, I think I cannot wait until she grows up & she can do 'this or that' with me, and then times like last night where she is cuddled in my arms very ready for bed, not too big for me to just sit there & snuggle with her for a bit, I think- wait, I don't want to lose this!! As she rests her head on my shoulder, tousles my hair and touches my skin, I've never felt more content. I know these are the moments I'll miss so much once she grows up.

Can hardly believe we're half-way to 1 year..WOW! She's wonderful & we're blessed to call her ours!

Winter Wonderland

2011-01-01T12:50:00.000-05:00

As we headed up to Beech Mountain, NC--about 30 minutes from Boone, we knew we'd get snow, but had no clue so much!! I haven't seen real snow (that sticks to the ground or accumulates) in ages and with it being Mollie's first Christmas, what an awesome memory we'll share:) It started to flutter Christmas Eve and then more & more...over 2ft in less than 3 days! It was awesome.

Mollie's reach is totally there. The girl wants to reach for everything...and then put whatever it is directly in her mouth. So, unwrapping presents was fun, although she really just wanted to eat the paper. Sorry hun, no can do.

What did Santa bring me?!

Mollie of course was spoiled rotten playing with my sisters and being held all the time, but at the same time was much fussier than usual & her sleeping was horrible. Matt & I are chalking it up to altitude--Beech Mtn is the highest point on the Eastern coast! We also think the 6 month growth spurt could have started then too. She has been eating more frequently and sleeping less. Oh joy for all of us!We've officially deemed Molls a beach baby as opposed to a mountain baby. Overall, I hear ya sista!!

Totally helpless!

The Garrett's had one heck of a 2010 & hard to believe it's already 2011-WOW! Cheers to all of the wonderful people who make our lives so special and cheers to a happy & healthy new year!

Here's some more pics to see:) xoxo

Santa's on his way!

2010-12-20T14:37:00.000-05:00

We've been having such a ball decorating for the holidays, shopping, listening to Christmas tunes & eating sweets...and Christmas isn't even here yet! I realized very early on in Mollie's life that I was going to be shopping for her more often than myself! Now with our first gift-giving holiday upon us, I realized that it's not just me. I have in turn given gifts based on Mollie to possibly everyone on both sides of our family. Example: Matt received a new stroller. I know what you all are thinking, 'a stroller?!' Oh joy. But he loved it, as I knew he would!! For the record, he also got other 'cool' stuff so don't poke fun at me. My sister Julie, told me I was lame..maybe so, but I've come to accept it, haha! Don't worry Julie, I didn't get you ~~anything~~ a stroller:)

I love my new stroller, too!

This past weekend we hosted Matt's parents (GiGi & Poppy) and did our Christmas with them. M could not get enough of their dog, Raleigh. She thought he was a hoot and just wanted to keep grabbing at the fur ball!

Not only do I purchase things to give based around Mollie, but we also receive! Not that I can think of anything I'd rather get than things for her, but it is pretty funny:) Although, maybe a nice spa day certificate thrown in for me is awesome- thank you Matt, you're the best! One gift from Matt says 'To: Leigh Ann' and inside is a Lands End tote with Mollie's initials. Another says 'From: Santa' and it's a steamer basket for making Mollie's food--actually that one was FROM Matt TO Matt, in reality! Sneaky..
GiGi & Poppy gave her a sweet new high chair seat, which we of course put to use that day. Special on the menu that day: Avocado--her new favorite! The girl ate 1/2 an avocado Saturday and the other 1/2 Sunday! Yummm I adore them too.


Lil bird

Matt, Mollie and I are all headed in the direction of Beech Mountain, NC (just outside of Boone) this Thursday. Mom, Dad & Jane have been there for a few days and Julie & Stephen are arriving today! They arrived with 4+ft of snow on the ground and it's not going anywhere. We can't wait...forecast is calling for snow mid-week and then big time on Friday. Yayyy for a White Christmas! We're keeping our fingers crossed & how cool for M's 1st Christmas!! I look forward to snuggling in with all of my favorite people, laughing, making memories and cooking yummy stuff.

Merry Christmas to you & your family. Have a blessed holiday and safe New Year!

A new world is born!

2010-12-10T12:53:00.001-05:00

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” Anais Nin

As I opened my email this morning, I read this quote. On so many levels this was perfect timing. Our dear friends welcomed a new baby into their lives yesterday! Some might have thought maybe they would never have children & heck, they might have even thought that themselves. When Matt & I learned of their pregnancy we were, of course, beyond excited. Mollie wasn't even born yet, but we just knew that including a child into our lives would make a new world possible and we were so happy our great friends would share in that experience with us.

The Haskins have been such wonderful friends to both Matt & I over the past few years. I love that in due time, people meant to be together do find each other. Mike & Kendra met 'later' in life and have such an awesome, authentic relationship. They are best of friends and work well together in so many different circumstances. As wonderful as they are just the two of them, I truly believe that sweet baby Colin will take their love for each other to the next level.

The day Mollie was born, Matt & I looked at each other with a mix of emotions, mostly tearful smiles of pure happiness knowing our lives would forever be changed. We were so blessed to be given a perfect newborn baby girl and to be given the responsibility to be her parents.

As Kendra & Mike got to experience that first moment of pure love with their new baby yesterday, I cannot WAIT to see & hear about what's to come for them. Friends, it only gets better & your new world has just been born when Colin Michael Haskins arrived:) Congrats!!

It's December!

2010-12-02T14:24:00.000-05:00

November sure did come and GO! We had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday in Myrtle Beach with us 3, Matt's parents, 1 brother, aunt & uncle, sister-in-law & 2 nieces..and a partridge in a pear tree:)

Mollie enjoyed her first turkey day and celebrated with some yummy sweet potatoes! As I told my co-workers earlier this week, I'm not sure Molls will meet a food she does NOT like. 2 for 2 so far and going strong!!

Who took my sweet 'tators away?!

Matt created her first menu last night of roasted squash & zucchini. Think we'll try that this weekend!

Mollie also got to meet Santa last weekend!!! Luckily (as of now) we have no issues with friends, etc holding Mollie or her being weird about who she gets held by if not mom & dad, so that's good! We didn't quite know what she'd do with Santa, but her classic expression of 'What the &^%$' came to face...

My parents arrive in Charleston tomorrow & we cannot wait for them to see M and show off all of her new tricks! It's just insane how quickly babies learn things and these early months it almost seems like daily something new happens or changes. Tuesday the girl will already be 5 months!! Wowsa.

Lately she has been sleeping less & less-- Over Thanksgiving & now this week too, she wakes up multiple times in the night just talking or laughing even! It really is funny, but not necessarily after the 4th time..Matt went in there the other night about 4:30am and she just laughed at him. Literally laughed at him. We joked that Matt had to bust the after-hours party she had going on, although it was a party of ONE! I've heard babies have some sleep regression before a new skill or a tooth...so not sure what her poison will be, but momma is ready for some decent shut eye:)

Time to Reflect

2010-11-24T06:39:00.000-05:00

"Don't pray when it rains, if you don't pray when the sun shines."

As we get older, responsibilities change, as do our priorities. Thanksgiving is always a wonderful reminder to look back on the year and be grateful for all that we've been blessed with and the people in our lives, more importantly. Praying when things are good is not my strong suit. I've always been the one to lean on God and ask for help or strength when I need it, just bad with saying thanks for when I do actually have the answers!

As I've come to see with Mollie, material items sure do mean a whole lot less than being able to spend time with each other. I love that Matt is an awesome dad and looks forward to spending time with his wife & daughter. I think it's safe to say it might be his favorite thing to do. I for sure can say, spending time with those 2 people sure is MY favorite thing to do:)

2 years ago this week, I was sleeping on the floor of the ICU waiting room with my mom & sisters, watching my dad cling to life. I always knew my family was the core of my existence, but going through something so bad, sure can bring you closer to one another..as can sharing your Thanksgiving meal in a hospital cafeteria. No fancy serving ware. No cooking in the kitchen for days. No real holiday decor. We were just grateful to be with each other. We were grateful to be eating warm food and have chairs to sit on. We were grateful that our dad was going to make it at least one more day. Those simple joys in life that don't cost a dime will ALWAYS outshine anything that has a dollar value. Nothing will ever compare to those moments and honestly, I'm glad it happened over Thanksgiving to really let us see all that we have been given in this life, all that we've worked towards & then be the most humbled I've ever known.

This past year at Thanksgiving, my family & Matt's family were all gathered in Myrtle Beach. Dad was also still a living miracle at that time, too! Thanksgiving day, Matt and I had the great honor of announcing to our families the coming addition to our family, now affectionately known as Mollie:) Only then, we had no clue boy/girl or anything else-we hadn't even been to the doctor or seen an ultrasound! We had known for a couple weeks if I remember correctly, but we stayed hush hush about it until we knew they'd all be together. It was one exciting day that's for sure!

Here we are in 2010 & we'll actually be able to celebrate Mollie here with us & also feed her her first REAL food-yummy sweet potatoes! My dad is truly a miracle. He survived 3 major surgeries and 74 days in the hospital with doctors not knowing exactly what would come next.

Not only does Thanksgiving bring us the natural meaning of thanks, but it's also a nice reminder to not only pray when it rains, but also pray when the sun shines! Be thankful everyday of the year, not just Thanksgiving. Happy Thanksgiving to you & all the wonderful people in your lives!

Its easy to pray when times are tough...and just as easy to pray when life is good and say, "Thanks" :) ~compliments of my friend Alaina

Grub time!

2010-11-22T10:33:00.000-05:00

I swear Mollie was born a foodie. First, she took her sweet time nursing...no rush, just wanted to savour every bit. Then, with a bottle she wants to chug it. If you take it from her and she is not done or you might by chance need to wipe her face a bit, she'll cry and/or squeal to let you know you better give that back to her ASAP. Don't mess with this chick at meal time.

Now, onto the food!! Matt and I had no clue what to expect when feeding her for the first time with a spoon. Would she open up? Would she eat/swallow it? Would she love it? YES to all of the above!!

She already wants to 'help'

She seriously opened her mouth and ate her rice cereal off the spoon with no hesitation--she did make a slight squirmy face when she first tasted the rice cereal, but it could not have gone smoother. She polished off her entire (little) bowl and just loved it!!!

So, we'll be on rice cereal for a little while, but Matt's dad 'Poppy' is going to fix her some sweet potatoes for Thanksgiving!! YUMMMMY! Haha, we cannot wait to see the look on her face when it's actually something delicious she's eating:)

4 month update

2010-11-18T13:17:00.000-05:00

Mollie is technically 4 months & 12 days, although we had her 4 month Dr. appt today, which included her 2nd round of vaccines:(

Took her shots like a champ!!

Of course as the Dr is talking to us, Mollie is just squealing and smiling at his assistant & it's hard for any of us to focus! Last weekend she began rolling from tummy to back and now is a pro, hardly staying on tummy for 2 seconds. Now today at the Dr office, she has learned to roll from back to tummy!! Haha, show off! So she is now a true roly-poly...No stopping her:)

Pediatrician said she is of course very healthy & yayyy ready to start some solids!! Well, that term is used lightly as 'solids' in the beginning is 1 Tsp rice cereal to 4 Tsp breastmilk. Hmm doesn't seem too SOLID to me! It will as time progresses, but either way, Matt and I are pumped to start trying to feed her this weekend. Here we come big girl spoon & bowl! Per Matt's request, we also got the go-ahead to try sweet potatoes or squash for Thanksgiving--she is def her dad's daughter! Don't worry, pictures and probably a video will come with a story I'm sure:)

Some stats, as of today 11/18/10
Height: 24 3/4 inches (75th percentile- Must have gotten our recessive genes!)
Weight: 11lbs 14oz (10th percentile- I couldn't believe she's not 12lbs yet, but Dr says she's great, just long & lean!)

How things change:)

2010-11-17T15:54:00.000-05:00

I received this list of '42 things that change when you have a baby' in an email & felt the need to share. Most of these I totally related to and many sure did bring a big smile to my face:)
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What changes when you have a baby? A better question may be: What doesn't change? Here, writer and mom Rebecca Woolf lists her most notable post-baby observations. Then scroll down to read our favorite comments from readers about how their babies changed their lives.

1. You finally stop to smell the roses, because your baby is in your arms.

2. Where you once believed you were fearless, you now find yourself afraid. [See a reader's perspective in #37, below.]

3. The sacrifices you thought you made to have a child no longer seem like sacrifices.

4. You respect your body ... finally.

5. You respect your parents and love them in a new way.

6. You find that your baby's pain feels much worse than your own.

7. You believe once again in the things you believed in as a child.

8. You lose touch with the people in your life whom you should have banished years ago.

9. Your heart breaks much more easily.

10. You think of someone else 234,836,178,976 times a day.

11. Every day is a surprise.

12. Bodily functions are no longer repulsive. In fact, they please you. (Hooray for poop!)

13. You look at your baby in the mirror instead of yourself.

14. You become a morning person.

15. Your love becomes limitless, a superhuman power.

And from our readers...
16. "You discover how much there is to say about one tooth." — Ashley's mom

17. "You finally realize that true joy doesn't come from material wealth." — Anonymous

18. "You now know where the sun comes from." — Charlotte

19. "You'd rather buy a plastic tricycle than those shoes that you've been dying to have." — Sophie's mom

20. "You realize that although sticky, lollipops have magical powers." — Roxanne

21. "You don't mind going to bed at 9 p.m. on Friday night." — Kellye

22. "Silence? What's that?" — Anonymous

23. "You realize that the 15 pounds you can't seem to get rid of are totally worth having." — Brenda

24. "You discover an inner strength you never thought you had." — Ronin and Brookie's mom

25. "You no longer rely on a clock — your baby now sets your schedule." — Thomas' mom

26. "You give parents with a screaming child an 'I-know-the-feeling' look instead of a 'Can't-they-shut-him-up?' one." — Jaidyn's mom

27. "Your dog — who used to be your 'baby' — becomes just a dog." — Kara
[Many readers begged to differ, saying things like, " I disagree with this. My dogs are my additional children," "Nothing about previous babies, whether two- or four-legged, changes when a new miracle comes along," "My dog will never be 'just a dog," and "This is sad to me. My dog is still my baby too."]

28. "You take the time for one more hug and kiss even if it means you'll be late." — Tracey

29. "You learn that taking a shower is a luxury." — Jayden's mom

30. "You realize that you can love a complete stranger." — Dezarae's mom

31. You find yourself wanting to make this world a better place. — Arizona

32. If you didn’t believe in love at first sight before, now you do! — Ciara

33. You start to appreciate Sesame Street for its intellectual contribution. — Anon.

34. You have to quit watching the news because you see every story from a mother's perspective and it breaks your heart. — Brooke&Boys

35. You just plain love life more - everything comes together and becomes better because of one tiny person and your love for them. — Anon.

36.. You finally find out the real reason you have those breasts. — Anon.

37. In response to #2 [above], I'd say that where you were once afraid, you're now fearless. I was always very timid and shy and let myself get walked all over … but now where my kid's concerned, I'll speak my mind and really connect with my inner "b"! — gummismom

38. The support you get from other people surprises you, because the people giving it are not always the ones you'd expect. — japanese_macaque

39. Nothing is just yours any longer. You share EVERYTHING! — DylanLsMom

40. No matter what you've accomplished in life, you look at your child and think, "I've done a GREAT job!" — Anon.

41. You want to take better care of yourself for your child. — Treasor

42. You can have the most wonderful conversation using only vowel sounds like "ahhh" and "oooo." — littlehulk2008

Milestone weekend!

2010-11-15T10:18:00.000-05:00

What a super fun & exciting weekend we had! Mollie has just been an absolute angel (what's new?!) during the days and nights. For all new parents, or seasoned ones for that matter, a good night's sleep for baby AND us is soooo lovely! On occasion she'll wake up once at some point, but just need to be patted and loved for a second, then she goes right back to sleep. For the past week at least, she has slept straight through the night...7pm-6:30am!! It's been awesome. So awesome, that I've now taken to waking up about 5:30 for the day and enjoying some quiet sofa time & news time with my cup of coffee.Ahhh.

So, Saturday morning Molls wakes up after her 11.5 hr slumber and we go into the living room to play for a bit. The girl was on her stomach for just a few seconds and she ROLLED OVER! After the first time she did her new trick, of course we had to video it:)

Some of you without children might be saying big deal, but really, when you have this little tyke that doesn't make any movements other than kicking legs, swinging arms and laying on back or tummy time, anything new in their development is exciting:) And it's a proud moment too...your little one is growing up & learning!!

We also ventured downtown on Sunday for '2nd Sunday', where they close a large part of King Street to all cars making it the perfect place to go with a stroller! Another brilliant Charleston happening, just doesn't get enough PR! Second month in a row now, the only place I hear about it is on the early AM news ticker.

Mollie and I ran into some friends, had some frozen yogurt at this new shop (well I did, M just watched in awe), danced to some fun tunes and then a couple hours later, she zonked out in the car on the way home. All that socializing can wear a girl out:)

I so wish Charleston would do this every Sunday or even twice a month! The weather could not have been more perfect or the people nicer. Shops had racks of items or tables outside, some places had little nibbles or drinks set out, it was just wonderful. We had a great time & of course Mollie was a ham to just about everyone who came up to her, young and old...smiling and squealing- just stealing hearts of course:)

A True Partnership

2010-11-12T10:01:00.000-05:00

I recently read an article in our local newspaper The Post & Courier titled Unfair Labor. Please read for yourselves, but the premise is that women carry a heavier load of duties at home than their male counterparts. As I read into the story a little bit, I was quickly reminded (yes, I already knew) that I have a very helpful husband and really don't feel like I carry a heavier load. Although I honestly will say that I think women in general do tend to do more around the house, such as cooking & cleaning, although in the Garrett household we are a true partnership.

It's pretty much always been this way, but since Mollie's arrival, we've had to be more specific in our duties and who does what, as to be as efficient as possible. Matt has always cooked for me, I think from the moment we met. I know, I know, he's a doll. His culinary degree sure does come in handy in our home or else we'd be having cereal every night or maybe a grilled cheese on a special occasion! I'm really not THAT bad, just don't enjoy cooking or being in the kitchen much. I do all of our laundry & sheets, as Matt hates that chore. He unloads the dishwasher, as I hate that chore. We have always been very considerate of each other and feel grateful for that type of relationship.

Our good friends & neighbors have a daughter 2 months older than Mollie. He's a doctor, therefore on call a good bit, which leaves the mom to do just about everything, whether weekday or weekend! On the rare occasion it's been just me for a full day/night I quickly realize how hard that is. I cannot even imagine how a working single mom does it--how do things even get done and where do you find the money to do it? The only time you'll be able to get any work or something else around the house done will be when your child is napping or asleep for the night. That's not much wiggle room. They've had such a hard time adjusting to that lifestyle that she is now going to be working just part-time so she is able to 'pay the bills, clean the house and go to the grocery store without their child!' If that's what works for them and will help her feel better about the balance in their life & relationship then go for it!! I'm happy that my friend's 'hamster wheel' will finally get off track a bit & she'll have some time for herself.

Take this week for example, I've had a couple things before AND after work which inhibits me from dropping or picking up Mollie. If Matt had any different schedule than he does, we'd be in trouble. How would we function and what would we have to sacrifice? How would we afford babysitters all the time outside of work hours? At night when I'm putting Mollie to bed, Matt's in the kitchen fixing our dinner. I just have to walk out and it's ready on the table. Maybe even a beer or glass of wine to accompany it as well:)

As the article states, "Men spend about 1hr and 10mins per day on all household activities, and women spend about 1hr and 55mins." To argue both sides, sure, I know some men who don't lift a finger...and I know some women who don't either! I'm so blessed that Matt and I both participate to what we feel is equal in our home. I love that Mollie will see her dad cooking in the kitchen and creating his weekly menu on our chalkboard. I love that she'll see me out in the yard trimming hedges or fixing a broken door knob. We do what we needs to be done around the house and help each other out, whether it's a coined 'mans job' or a 'woman's job.'

Baby It's Cold Outside

2010-11-09T11:15:00.000-05:00

Time to switch our AC to Heat. Time to switch from iced morning coffee to hot. Time to use our fireplace and fire pit! Our weather suddenly got pretty cold, which means Matt & I had to break out the winter gear, as well as Mollie. I felt like this bundle of joy needed a post about her being all bundled up:)

I've always hated dressing for winter. It takes too long & you miss the days of just throwing on a summer dress and being done. You can't leave the house without a jacket, obviously, but as soon as you begin to enter indoor locations, the temperature is consistently different everywhere you go. So if you layer, which most of us in the South know we must do, then you might start out in 4 layers, then go down to 3, back up to 4, then down to 1. This could be because of the drastic temp change or because people don't understand what a 'comfortable' AC/Heat setting is....

Now, dressing an infant in general is pretty tough. Arms are a flyin', legs are a kickin', sometimes there is laughter, sometimes crying. It's a feat to get a full outfit on a child, I swear. And then if you're lucky, they can stay in that outfit for a few hours at least before it gets soiled one way or another:) Layering a child takes forever. Then they'll have a dirty diaper and you have to go through that whole process again. Guess that's why time management starts to have a whole new meaning for moms. I've definitely learned to give myself a few extra minutes here & there and prepare for the unexpected. Not that I have this all figured out or are always on time, don't let me fool you!

To put us all in that cold weather snuggle mood, here are some pics of Miss Molls ready for her first winter:) Cannot wait to see her look like a snowman when we're in Boone skiing for Christmas!!

My precious

Lazy Saturday in front of the fire


Lil gangsta..

Rosy red cheeks:)

Getting so fun!

2010-11-03T12:29:00.001-04:00

This child is so funny!! She's growing and getting just more wonderful by the day. As incredible and absolute miracles as newborns are, Matt and I have realized we love the interaction that an infant and beyond brings..Those first 2+ months were hard!! I know you seasoned moms are shaking your heads saying, 'Just you want until they can walk and say No!' Haha, when that times comes we'll probably be like, Man remember when we could just lay Molls on her playmat and she'd coo or squeal and stay in that one spot for a while??' The squeal gets me & Matt every time. It's the cutest sound ever and she is just in hog heaven.(I really hope this video below works, but might not) I love a happy baby!!! Her personality is starting to show & so look forward to seeing more.

Here are a few updates on the Mollster:
Favorite thing to hold: Still babydoll that she cuddles with in her swing or Matt's chest hair, haha!
Best Friend: Gunna have to say Matt on this one.. :)
Favorite toy: Toss up between playmat and Jenny jump-up
Favorite sound to make: Oh, the SQUEAL!
Favorite sound to hear: Mom singing...no, seriously, really. I don't know what's wrong with her, but she loves to hear me sing! I just need to learn more verses in all the children's songs so she doesn't start to learn my made up lines!
Favorite Food Network host: Ina Garten
Favorite (current) Song: 'Stuck Like Glue' by Sugarland. We love to sing along in the car:)

We celebrated Halloween in style by playing with our friends across the street and hanging out in costumes. Well sort of. Poor Mollie had this HUGE bumblebee outfit and she was not having it.

Mad as a bumblebee:)

The rest of the day we were in our Halloween onesie & Frankenstein bib and socks.

She's getting great at holding her head up and wants to see all the action happening around her (not that that's anything new!) Think that's why she loves the Jenny jump-up, she gets to hang out with us with us in kitchen and still do her own thing. We're also on the hunt for a good jumperoo or excersaucer. Just another large item to add to the living room..What do people with kids do in cramped spaces?! Pretty sure our living room (or entire house) will never look like the adult place we had in the past, but we have no problem with it as long as Mollie is happy in her home:)

We did it!!

2010-10-26T10:48:00.000-04:00

We left Mollie with a babysitter....and it was a success on both ends! Matt and I were co-hosting a baby shower for our dear friends, Mike & Kendra, last Saturday night and my parents were not in town. That means we needed outside help. While my parents have been great about watching Mollie here & there for a little bit, this was the first time we'd be leaving her full bedtime routine and putting her down for the night to someone else. Our very sweet intern at work, Sarah, was the perfect girl for the job. I'm thankful we didn't wait any longer than 3.5 months to hire someone for an evening. It really helped me let go of some of that nighttime control and feeling like everything has to go EXACTLY as planned for Mollie to go down for the night correctly AND sleep 10+ hours as she consistently does. Mollie & Sarah both did excellent and Molls didn't make a peep all night! Whew. It was a great learning experience for me & another thing I can check off my list as being nervous about, but accomplishing:)

I'd typed out contact numbers and other important notes/information to keep on our fridge. As many years as I was a babysitter myself, I tried to remember what it was that I liked to know and have ahead of time. We put together a great list of all of our doctors, local emergency people, neighbors, etc. Then another list of Mollie's feeding info, tips for things around the house, nighttime routine all spelled out (haha) and the list goes on. I don't want a sitter or family member to feel they have to follow it to a 'T', but I do want them to know what we do & it seems to work fine:) I also need to be better about leaving planned dinner options for the sitter. That always bothered me when I couldn't find anything to eat at someone's house. Glad we have a fridge full always!!

One confession though..I had told Sarah ahead of time that Mollie spits up a LOT, but forget to mention to bring an extra shirt or change or clothes. And no, I am not exaggerating, we have multiple outfit changes a day & should have prepared Sarah better! Of course throughout the night, she is texting me updates (this is why I adore her) & she did tell me M had a HUGE spit up after her bath. I didn't ask too many questions at that point, as I knew I'd be home soon and she'd tell me what I needed to know. After all, spitting up big time is just Molls' MO. So, we come home and Sarah has her cardigan all the way buttoned-up, proceeds to walk to the laundry room & show me her camisole that's hanging on the door handle drying. She had to wash it in the sink. Then next to that is a pile of clothes/towels that came from earlier in the evening..Mollie spit up on her bunny bath towel, then Sarah had to use it to wipe the floor where some spit up occurred, as well. Welcome to our world. To create a visual, this is a picture from a 24hr wash load (of just Mollie's stuff!) Sat- Sun. Probably about 10 burp cloths, 8 outfits, 10 bibs. Yeah....that seems about right:)

We're grateful to have Sarah as a sitter and also look forward to another night out. Although, I'll also confess that I look forward to having my parents back, as we don't have to pay them nearly as much;) It did Matt & I great to get out of the house for a night, spend some time solo with friends, but really, at the end of everything, we are 100% happy spending our time together at home, sitting on the back porch together after Molls goes to bed and having our alone time then. Much cheaper, comfortable and like they say, there's no place like home.

Hello Fall!

2010-10-19T09:46:00.000-04:00

Molls is growing so fast it's almost unbelievable! We are blessed with one very happy baby I will say..She smiles a LOT and always if someone is talking to her and/or smiling at her (guess I can't capture on camera though!) She loooves to be a part of the action!! She is getting even better at holding her head up, loves to sit up & see what's happening. I swear the girl doesn't miss a beat. She will coo and talk so much, sometimes we hardly get a word in. It's just awesome to see that kind of development literally occur before your eyes.
I'm so in love with how she will follow Matt with her eyes and head alll the way around a room or when he's sitting next to us and gets up, she turns and looks like she's really about to talk and say "Dad, where you going?" It's so darn cute and melts him, I know.

Word up, sista

Last weekend we took Molls to the pumpkin sale at a local church, where our friends belong. Granted, I had about 3 cute outfits for her to get different photos in, but we ended up with just this one due to sleepiness...and also got called 'handsome.' Shucks..guess it's back to the pink & purple for this one!! Haha!

Two buds

My little pumpkin!!

Almost 2 weeks ago we also got the first real laugh!! It was everything and more, that I'd been waiting on. Just the sweetest chuckle ever. And of course, once you hear it, you want it all the time--but she only indulges me sometimes, though we're on a pattern of at least once a day! A friend and I were talking the other day about all these baby milestones & how they have so many accomplishments this first year. I'm not really one to take the time to scrapbook, although I do enjoy crafts, and honestly don't even have a baby book for Mollie! I have gathered some pictures and at least will write on the back her age, etc. But I also figured, I'm not doing a baby book because I have this blog! I can't wait to share with her all those old entries of Matt & I first knowing about her existence, her growing in my tummy and even more importantly, how much we LOVE having her with us and how much fun we are having! Each day brings a new smile to our face and we anticipate getting to see her each morning. Even this am, I brought her into our bedroom to say hey to Matt...although he would've seen her in just a few more minutes, I just couldn't wait:)

Matt and I did have our first dinner date sans Mollie last week. Mom & Dad were in town so they watched her for a couple hours.

Mimi, Pops & Mollie

It was lovely, but we were anxious to get back to see her before she went to bed!! I do remember the times before Matt & I had Mollie, there's no lying and saying I don't, haha!, but in all honesty, I'm not sure either of us smiled or laughed on a daily basis as much as we do now. Guess that's what parenting is supposed to be. Building joy upon joy. I'm pretty certain there's more joy now than we ever expected..and I hear it only gets better!

Family pic..complete with spit up!!

Happy 3 months, Mollie!

2010-10-06T09:12:00.000-04:00

Oh my, Mollie is already 3 months today!! This age seemed so far away!! She is honestly getting sweeter and more fun by the day- Matt and I cannot get enough of her and that precious face:)

Sweet, sweet girl!!

A few things we've recently realized..

I'm not sure if we'll ever have the need for an alarm clock again
When she gets up in the AM's, we both race each other in the room, as that first daily sight of her all swaddled and smiling is truly priceless. We just stand over her & laugh it's so adorable! (see pic)
She is a 'happy spitter' - the girl spits up more than we thought possible, but smiles and it doesn't bother her, so no need to worry! I'm keeping burp cloth and bib companies in biz.
Pretty certain Mollie will love cooking and/or helping dad in the kitchen. She can sit in her bumbo and watch dad cook forever..he tells her about all the tips and ingredients! We cannot WAIT to talk solids with the Pediatrician next month!!!
When she catches a glimpse of the TV her eyes just get locked in..she seems to prefer Food Network, but maybe that's because it's all we watch:)
She is getting so good at sitting up and having strength. She loves to look around and is so alert- but really, she was alert from Day 1! We of course have to help her sometimes, but guess rolling over is next on her agenda, so we'll see!
Her likes and dislikes are becoming a bit more obvious each day. Likes= swing, taking walks, being outside, talking, reading, lovey blankets, babydoll, bathtime and MUCH more. She is a very happy baby. Dislikes= getting hungry is pretty much it. Ha!
Pretty sure Mollie's a morning person, which is fine by me! Matt and I are by no means night owls..Although this AM I did have to go in and wake her, which I hate doing as she needs her sleep, but the girl had been asleep for 11+ hours!!!
Somehow each night she moves from one end of her crib to the other IN her swaddle (see pic). Little inchworm we have I guess! What will happen when we don't swaddle her?! Will she learn to crawl?!
Matt & I are blessed everyday to have a wonderful and healthy child- we could not ask for more!

All wedged down at the end! Haha

Seriously, makes our day to wake up to this! Wish I awoke this happy:)

I also want to take this opportunity and say THANK YOU to all of our blog readers...I run into people all the time who reference the blog & I also get the most amazing emails or facebook messages from best friends and even long lost friends sharing their highs & lows of parenting, providing support, telling cute or funny stories and I really appreciate it!!! Y'all are awesome:) xoxo

Reality Hits (& Bites)

2010-10-01T11:41:00.000-04:00

My maternity leave is officially over. Well, today is my last weekday at home with lil peanut:(

Our last weekday AM walk..

Beginning July 6 when Mollie was born, fast forward 3 months and now it's time to go back to work. Early on I was overwhelmed with emotion & life and it definitely took me a good while to make sense of our new life and learning all these new ropes. Ha, not like I have it ALL figured it out yet:) But feel I sure could use some more time. I'm staying realistic and thinking, who could NOT use more time?!

I've worked from home throughout my leave and then in September I went into the office 2x a week. It's now October 1. Guess what that means- full time for me in the office starting this month. Ohhh has the day really come?! Reality hits and tears fill my eyes.

Being home a few days a week with her for sure had it's pro's & con's. I wasn't rushed in the mornings. We got in our regular neighborhood walk & I was able to just snuggle with her for as long as I wanted. On the other hand, it really was non-stop. When she did nap, I could then get things done. I am not the cook of the household, Matt is, thank goodness. While I do clean, I could do a better job:) Between feeding her, pumping, washing things in the sink, laundry, playing with her, straightening the house, I was sometimes lucky to even get myself lunch made on time or close to it. That kind of hecticness I won't miss...but man, I will miss those snuggles:) With her bedtime about 7pm, and we get home around 5pm, that's not much time to spend with her! I think that's been the toughest part on my office days..I feel like I never get to see her. Although, P.S. Mollie, I don't NEED to see you in the middle of the night, so keep up the great sleeping!!

We adore Mollie's caregiver- she is with a wonderful lady (JoJo) and her family who all love kids! We've been transitioning into our routine for September and all seems great. Matt & I are working on the AM routine of feeding, quick nap for Molls, getting us and her dressed, bags packed, milk transported, dropping her off, etc. I am now questioning will I ever get my car and personal space back?? My thought is no. What used to fill my car was trashy mags, sunscreen and beach chairs has now been replaced with a stroller, carseat and an overfilled diaper bag. To be honest, I wouldn't trade that for anything! Even when Mollie isn't riding in the car with me, I glance in my rearview mirror, see her carseat and just smile ear to ear. She warms my heart through & through.

I always knew and assumed I'd be a 'working mom' and never thought I'd consider anything other...until I met my daughter. Don't get me wrong, I love to work and I love my job!! I know for a fact that staying home with a baby full-time would not satisfy me--at least not for very long I don't think. I've loved having best of both worlds this past month, but really, that's not for me either. It was very, very hard to work a whole lot at home and stay focused, so am confident that if I'm to work, I prefer the office. So what IS for me? I'm not sure 100%- but I know what it is for now and for a while.

As Oprah says, 'what I do know for sure' is...I love my daughter more than I ever thought possible and want the best in life for her. Mollie will grow up seeing her mom as an independent, confident woman who took her children and family's interests seriously and appropriately. Nothing less. She will see me laughing with Matt and us spending quality time with each other. SHE will grow up an independent & confident woman, as well.

Where has the time gone?!

2010-09-28T16:13:00.000-04:00

So apparently, 3 months marks the transition from a newborn to an infant. We have a few more days, I'm not jumping the gun quite yet. It's so hard to believe how much these little beings change in just a few short weeks! My newborn will soon become an infant...wowsers, where has the time gone?!

Lounging poolside at Kiawah

Just Playin'!

One week I'm stressing that I need to be better apt to handle her wants & needs, I mean, the girl does communicate but I just doing speak 'baby' very well sometimes...At least she only cries when she needs something and once I go down my short list of what those things could be, I stumble upon the correct answer. Whew crisis averted. Once she hit about 2.5 months this was soooo much better!!

As much as it makes perfect sense, Matt and I have to constantly remind ourselves that babies are just 'miniature us's'. Some days we're more hungry or less hungry than others. Same with babies. Some nights we sleep well, some nights not. Same with babies. I could go on & on.. We're still trumped at certain moments, but for the most part, we're getting the hang of this! And loving every second of it- she really is super fun!!

Her personality's really starting to come through. There are times when she needs her alone time & doesn't want to be held. I hear ya. She'll wiggle and whine and as soon as you put her down, she's fine. I've always been one to enjoy time by myself as has Matt. I think that's a great attribute in a person when they enjoy spending time with just themselves. I bet she'll like her independent time to play and just chill when she gets older, too. When I would worry about her napping, my mom would remind me, 'when she's tired, she will sleep.' I really didn't quite get that & thought I had to tell her when to do it and coax her into falling asleep. Not the case. If I provide her the opportunity to fall asleep she will (in most cases) fall asleep. I got so wrapped up into having her 'be by the book' that I was missing her messages and her individuality. I've learned my lesson & will let her be her OWN person. As much as I wanted a schedule, we pretty much have one without me forcing anything. For that, I am grateful and comfortable.

Her smiles are out of control! The girl will crack me up. We finished feeding a few days ago and I started singing Bad Romance by Lady Gaga (don't ask) and the girl LOVED it. Oh great. Yep, she is def the niece of Julie & Jane Szteiter, the biggest Gaga fans I know:) I cannot wait for Mollie's out loud laughs to start!!! They are almost there & I am dying for a real giggle. While she can 'talk' up a storm, and seriously at times we can hardly get a word in. Matt and I just look at her and laugh. What in the world could she be trying to tell us? Something very important and useful, I'm sure:)

She was all smiles then stopped once the camera came out!

She also recently loves to hold things and touch things. Hence this precious picture of her holding her babydoll! She naps with her over her face and blankie in other hand. We knew she was a snuggle bug from DAY 1-- Melts my heart!!

Loving on babydoll

We have daily tummy time & while she is awesome at holding her head up, no signs of her attempting to roll over yet, but we're working on it.

Roll Tide Roll!!

She's been sleeping great. She basically tells us what she wants and we follow. Guess we already know who is in charge here, right?! Her naps are pretty consistent and even if brief at times, she gets what she needs. Her fave afternoon nap spot is on her tummy (supervised, of course) in our living room leather chair. It's adorable & she always looks so content!

Ahhhhhhhh

We were trying different bedtimes to see what works and think we've ended up with right about 7pm. She has been doing down like a champ! We bathe her, have massage time, pj's, then read Goodnight Moon, eat a touch more, then bed. As we're reading Goodnight Moon, she always starts to fuss right around the page of 'Goodnight mush' because she knows her bedtime snack is right around the corner- haha! I usually get up once with her about 3 to eat & I also pump then we're all good:) Looking forward to her spacing that out til wakeup time!! A few nights ago it was ALL night, 8pm-6am, then the next night it was 7pm-5:45am...bingo, lets keep that up!!

So, we're going to have our last little while with our newborn and then she grows up into a new category. So very hard to believe and I know she'll be crawling before I can even blink my eyes. For now, we'll enjoy our little tiny Mollie:)

Happy Anniversary!

2010-09-23T08:45:00.000-04:00

Matt & I are celebrating 4 years of marriage today!! I remember that magical day like it was yesterday and relive it often. The day he proposed to me in Asheville and it was snowing, the moment I called my family to share the good news, the day I walked down the aisle in my dad's arms to wed my best friend.

4 years? How could so very much happen in just 4 years? An amazing wedding, a couple weeks after my mom falls down and busts her teeth out, my sisters go off to college, my dad is in the hospital for 74 days, my parents sell their house and probably 95% of everything in it and then we welcome Mollie into our lives:) Whew. That exhausts me just writing it out.

I can only imagine how wonderful all of these many more years will be with our little family. We've taken some awesome trips together, laughed so hard we've cried and cried so hard we've laughed. What is in store for the next 4? I don't know, but I will say excitement is sure to be had:)

I'm lucky he chose me. I'm lucky we were blessed to have a beautiful little girl together. I love you, boo and Mollie does too!!

She's growing!

2010-09-15T08:51:00.000-04:00

Yesterday we had Mollie's 2 month vaccine Pediatrician appt. I will honestly say that I had no clue what to expect nor how she would react. I was dreading the shots! I've only heard one pain cry from her and it was the other night, when my ring either scrached her neck or she got a scratch elsewhere & I just rubbed it. Either way, I knew that was a pain cry. When I heard it, I just snuggled her real hard and hoped it would go away ASAP whatever it was! I knew we'd hear it again with the shots. She did GREAT! Was snoozing in my arms at the time they were ready to do them, so I woke her a bit, had to lay her down, the sweet nurse was quick and she cried a few good wails, but that was it! Then I scooped her back up, snuggled with her & rocked and presto, back asleep...for almost 3 hrs!!! She fell asleep in her carseat and I even ate lunch in my car, in the driveway so I would not disturb her!

Check out my boo-boo's :(

I actually ADORE our Dr, so it's been nice to go to him and he really spends time talking with the patients about what baby is doing, how the family is doing, milestones, what we need to look ahead at doing/not doing, etc. It's wonderful to have him as an important resource and he's been helpful from Day 1.

Also at this appt they do measurements and look at percentiles/averages. She is exactly 10 lbs!!! I knew she was close to that a couple weeks ago and Matt & I even thought she'd be a touch more, but nope -10 even. That puts her in the 50% percentile, so exactly average--although I think she is waaayyy better than average:) Big improvement as at 2 weeks, her weight was in the 10% bracket. She is now 22 1/2 inches in length, putting her in the 80% bracket. Where is she getting this height?! Not me or Matt, haha, must be my side as the rest of my family is pretty tall. I knew she might be lengthier than usual, as some 0-3 month outfits are so wide on her, but pull a bit in the length. Go girl, get you some height!!

Gah, I'm so big!

I don't know if it was the vaccines or not, I am hoping not, but she had an awesome night's sleep last night. We currently have a consistent bedtime routine, just not really consistent bedtime. We made the effort to put her down earlier than usual last night, when showing tired signs and she went to sleep without even a wimper! Woke up at 12:45 and I needed to pick her up, pat her back & put her back down. She didn't wake again until 4:30am!! She ate pretty well & then back down (which she is always good about, thank God). I went in there this am at 6:45 to start our day!! She was stirring, but not totally up. Had the BIGGEST grin on her face too!! Guess that's what happens when we get a good night's sleep, huh?! Yay, hope we're on to something, I've known she needed more nighttime sleep hours, um as do Matt & I. Day sleep issues will be next:)

Information Overload

2010-09-10T11:43:00.001-04:00

“One of the effects of living with electric information is that we live habitually in a state of information overload. There’s always more than you can cope with.”
Marshall McLuhan

“Everybody gets so much information all day long that they lose their common sense.”
Gertrude Stein

I've always felt like a pretty confident woman. Confidence in myself & confidence in my choices. It's always been a priority of mine to build up others self-esteem, especially women, as it's sooooo important and we all know why.

When Matt and I were first talking about starting a family, there wasn't a whole lot to do or 'study' ahead of time, per se. We wanted children together and that's all there was to it. So, of course, once you find out you are pregnant, the mass of information becomes out of control. I mean,you immediately want to read up on what you as a child-bearing mother should do & more so, what we should NOT do-- Matt likes to say the book "What to Expect When You are Expecting' is full of 'all things you cannot do.' In all honesty, he's spot on. When you are pregnant you tend to worry about what you are eating, your size & what's normal and more so, what's going on with this baby inside of me? Well, there are plenty of books, websites and people's opinions out there to last us a lifetime! I don't even think I read through all the pregnancy books I had.

Fast forward to the present & we have a beautiful and sweet 9-week old little girl:) Almost the moment she arrived, I then moved onto the books and websites of parenting. A whole new genre at Barnes & Noble, if you will. Now...I really didn't stress or worry much during pregnancy, I knew it was all in God's hands and as long as I did what was healthy for me and baby, that's all I could do. Ha, not the same way I feel now that she is here!!! I wish it were that simple. Maybe it is and I'm just suffering from information overload.

Once you have that new life in your arms, the decision has automatically been made that you will do ANYTHING & EVERYTHING in your power for them. It's so true, it's almost frightening. In thinking and feeling that, you want to try and do everything right. Well the problem is, what is 'right?' What's right for one baby and family is not for another.

I heard the cliche 'Babies don't come with instruction manuals' time & time again and I really thought it was so lame. Now, um yeah, where IS my instruction manual?! After 9 weeks, we are for sure figuring things out. Books, websites and friends have helped, but there is an overabundance of information out there to 'help' you & at times it for sure has. On the other hand, sometimes all it does is confuse the heck out you and make you question yourself. I think that's the hardest part. I never really squabbled in my confidence or my choices, but I swear these past weeks sure have tested that. What if we do this, will that help? How do I help her sleep better? How do we get her on a schedule? The list goes on...On that note, I sent Matt to go out and get a particular baby sleep book for me. He comes back and informs me that the book was at B&N in the 'Problem Children' area. Great. Now, my child has a problem..just one more thing to worry about. Yeah right.

I know I'm the only mom Mollie will ever know & I think I'm a pretty darn good one I will say:) I want to make her the happiest baby possible and do everything 'right.' I think I'm starting to let go of the obsessive need to read into things too much and question our choices. I want Mollie to lead us and let us know what she wants. Hun, we're listening- tell us what you want! I promise to put down all the books and delete some of the bookmarked websites & just spend time with you. Not a whole lot of information, just good ole' quality time:) Our newest favorite past-time.

Happy 2 months, Mollie!

2010-09-06T15:03:00.000-04:00

How could so very much happen in just 2 short months?! Our lives have been changed forever and we're so grateful for that:) I figured now would be a good time to recap things that have happened this month & see Mollie's progress of growing up to be a big girl! It really is amazing how quickly they develop and learn!!

Here are some basics to catch you up to speed: She is 21 1/2 inches long (was 19 at birth) --she is stretching out!! We have no scale, but I'm guessing she is pushing 10 lbs (was 6.6 at birth)...also heard that was the magic number to help her sleep through the night:) Wooohoooo! We also go to her 2 month pediatrician appt next week to do vaccines..I think I'll cry as hard as she will!

Look how long I am!

Mollie has grown out of 'newborn' sized clothing and into 0-3mths. Some of those are even too big on her, but as I've learned real quick with a baby girl, there is never a shortage of clothing. Isn't that with all females?! Thanks to spit up, etc we have multiple outfit changes a day, so we do get to wear everything! She also moved out of newborn sized diapers around week 7 and into size 1. I did a pretty darn good estimate on diapers when couponing and only had to buy 1 extra package of newborns! I just restocked a pack of 1's on the changing table and have 2 more packages..can we make it with those until she reaches 12 lbs?! Haha, I think no, but they are big packages, so we'll see. I also got a TON of wipes (or so I thought a ton) on clearance at CVS months ago. Matt sort of laughed at me at the time, but he knows I love having back-ups of things..and especially those must have items like diapers & wipes!!

Her bedtime routine consists of given her a bath around 6:30ish, which she LOVES, then lotion and massage time, then pj's--we then chill for a bit and maybe read a book and then have our bedtime milk between 7-7:30. She is usually asleep around 8pm. We are not doing a 'dreamfeed' with her, although I know it works for sooo many people, but rather letting her wake on her own in the night and it's usually just once around 3am. Last night was 4:30!! I figure if I have to get up around then to pump regardless, I might as well do everything at one time.We still swaddle her at night, as her arms would still most likely wake her up..actually I don't know, but not willing to take the chance quite yet! When she wakes up, she has somehow inched her way down to the other end of the crib. I guess the girl can move- Eeks, may have an early crawler and walker, we shall see:)

She has gotten so strong, too! She will really push her legs and put pressure on them, which feels so funny for being so small! We've also been having daily tummy time and she's getting awesome at holding her head up-- we're so pumped for that & cannot wait to sit her in her Bumbo seat at the table & elsewhere with us to chill. She already wants to know what's going on & not miss a beat.

I'm getting so strong!

She and I have been getting out and about a good bit & each time gets a bit easier. We do daily morning walks in the neighborhood, usually after her morning cat nap, so she is wide awake and looking all around at the trees, hearing the birds, etc. I've been laying her flat in the stroller, but a few days ago I sat her seat up and she did great! Matt had his first solo excursion with her this weekend. They ventured to Target, Bed, Bath & Beyond and World Market. They both survived just fine:) Sunday, we took her to her first Riverdogs baseball game and then today we had an awesome picnic at the Mt. Pleasant Waterfront Park.

My mom and dad left Charleston about a week ago. It was so sad, as they've been here since the middle of May! They'll be in Point Clear for September, October & November, then on to Boone, NC for December. That's also where we'll all do Christmas so that should be super fun! They bought a VERY cute cottage just around the corner from our house and have spent every minute of free time fixing it up. I'm not lying when I say every free minute. The place looks amazing and has so much charm & character. I'll need to post some pics once they get back up here. Guessing come January they will be here for a bit. I mean, who can stay away from Charleston or your only grandchild?!

Now the bittersweet part...I start back in the office tomorrow. Just 2 days a week however in September, then full-time in October. I said the other day, just as I'm getting the hang of this & getting into my groove, time to go to the office! But hey, my time with Mollie has been amazing and will make weekends with us 3 that much more special I think. At least that's what I'm telling myself:) We have a great lady that will be watching Mollie out of her home & we are thankful for this arrangement- we also have a friend who's little boy will be there starting in January, too! So fun:)

That's us in a nutshell these days. Matt and I are just in awe of Mollie each & every day. We've been having such fun with her! Her coos and smiles get us every time and just make us smile that much more. Cheers to 2 months Mollie and cheers to us surviving and thriving- it's been a wonderful ride thus far!

What we've learned in just 8 weeks

2010-08-31T11:22:00.000-04:00

Home takes on a new meaning
One really CAN function on very little sleep!
My control went out the window about 8 weeks ago and I'm not sure if it'll come back
I always wondered how/why people can do daily loads of laundry-now I know, we go through many outfit changes in one day.. and I mean Mollie AND us!
On that note, thank God we purchased the pedestals to raise our front load washer/dryer- my back (nor patience) would have made it.
A new mom can never have enough bibs and burp cloths- It's the bulk of my daily laundry.
A shower every day is a wonderful treat and I welcome the alone time!
I have eaten more ice cream in the past weeks than ever-also thanks to mom for always having a go-to dessert!
When Mollie sleeps longer one night than the night before, of course I wake up early and then wonder if I should wake her up..what gives?!
My parents & sisters mean more to me now than ever before. Didn't even know that was possible.
Babies can blow through some diapers & wipes!!!!
I have the best parents-in-law and grateful they live so close to Charleston
Pretty much every baby toy/piece uses batteries..go ahead and keep some extra on hand in case your go-to item, like our swing, starts to die!
How does someone so little need so very much stuff! Our home and cars are totally taken over:)
I am thankful everyday for my life and the people in it. We have some amazing friends.
Taking care of an infant is non-stop..did I think otherwise?!
When my confidence as a mom starts to waiver I just try and remember that if I didn't second guess myself that might mean I didn't care.
The internet and message boards can be your best friend, although make you question just about everything you are doing!
Breastfeeding takes true commitment and dedication--and is worth every minute.
Invest in a good rocker/recliner/glider for baby room..you will spend a ton of time in it
Spend the first 2 weeks solely getting to know your new baby and taking time for yourself and to sleep! Let others do the laundry, cook, clean, etc. I cannot say this enough!!! Oh, and it's a great excuse to stay in pj's for 2 weeks..wish I really would have done it.
I never thought I'd be getting in bed before the sun went down..and quite honestly I don't mind it one bit
Getting a few quiet minutes on the sofa now with just me & Matt makes that time even more special:) Pretty soon, maybe we'll have some conversations that are not solely baby based!
A swaddle blanket really can make a world of difference. I swear it's what helps Mollie sleep at night.
Babies fight sleep just like we do sometimes..they cannot get comfortable or are even too tired and get fussy due to lack of sleep.
We never watch any tv's anymore when they actually come on, everything is tivo'd
I'm not sure when I last bought something for myself..even on brief shopping trips, I dart straight to the baby/kids section and or get something baby related. My how things change so quickly:) Even at TJ Maxx!!
She is becoming an inchworm and scooting herself all around her crib in the night, even in her swaddle! It gives us a laugh to see what position she ends up in after her long sleep stretch.
I am attached to my breast pump. Literally. I even bought a car adapter. Don't worry, I don't pump & drive.
We could NOT live without our video monitor- it's the bomb and gives us peace of mind during naps and especially night
We are in love. As soon as that girl smiles at us, it's over.
Mollie is a water baby, hooray! She LOVES bath time and she loved the beach, ocean and pool too!
She is growing so quickly- Matt & I adore watching all these new little developments. She kicks like a rockette, coos/giggles all the time, loves music and us making funny faces at her.
Sleep is a learned skill...if you give them the tools and space needed, they will learn. (I am no pro, but we're getting there)
Getting somewhere on time and with everything you need is a total feat. I still try my best to be somewhere a few minutes early, but hey, spit ups and poops happen RIGHT as you walk out of the door, it never fails.
I can do more things with my left hand now more than ever, although eating left handed is quite odd I will say.
As much as we have loved this baby time and cuddling, we are both pretty pumped to see Mollie's personality really evolve & expand. We cannot wait to really play with her!!
It's crazy that I wake up in the middle of the night missing her face...I actually look forward to wee hour feedings sometimes!
I need to be better about documenting us with photos. Maybe we even need a video camera:)
Daytime TV is horrible. Just bad. At least DirectTV has all those music channels or Mollie and I would be in silence.
8 weeks feels like such a short period of time on one hand & so long on the other!
It seems sort of strange looking back and trying to remember times/life without Mollie. I feel like she's been with us forever.
At times when it feels overwhelming or a hassle, all it takes is one glance at her and it makes it all worthwhile:)

Ahh the sweet life

2010-08-28T08:18:00.000-04:00

After 6 plus weeks of us having a summer baby and not once stepping foot on the beach with her, we figured it was time for a little getaway! The 3 of us went to Myrtle Beach for a few nights to relax and enjoy the sunshine, beach, porch sitting and each other:) We could not have asked for more beautiful weather and being 1 block from the ocean, we had the nicest COOL breeze in the am & pm.

Mollie with her suit on for the 1st time!

We had the car packed down to say the least and Matt even got to use his new back rack that attaches to his trailer hitch- oh the little things that get us excited. It's crazy how much stuff you need & use for someone so darn tiny- we were afraid to leave anything, so we pretty much just brought everything! We even bought her a new travel swing to make the transition a bit easier:)

We were a bit nervous about traveling with Molls- how would she do in the car for 2 hours? How would she sleep away from home? How would WE handle the change? But alas, all was wonderful!! She slept like a champ in her pack n play for the first time ever, too. Whew. Since she adores bath time so much, I think we're now convinced she is a water baby..cannot wait until she is a bit bigger and can play at the beach!

It's so funny how our original idea of taking her to Disney World in September was very quickly changed once we realized what exactly an infant entails, how much of an ordeal it would be to tote her (and all her stuff) around, get her naps in, keep us sane, etc. Instead we opted for a few days close by and it was awesome. Think we all needed a change of pace and to do nothing but have fun!

We had a great time crusin' on the golf cart, playing in the water, going to the pool and of course people watching on the porch. We had a few outings and got to hang out with GiGi & Poppy a bit, which of course Mollie (and us) loved!

I'm excited that we're so close to our beach house and we know we'll be going there even more now than we have before. It's such a perfect place for kids to play and so many fun things to do. Perfect home away from home!

Happy Child

2010-08-16T14:57:00.001-04:00

From the moment we laid eyes on Mollie for the first time, we KNEW she was a happy baby- she smiled at us! I know, the real smiles don’t come for a while, but either way it was a smile and we didn’t care where it came from or why! I also have always felt she’d have Matt’s easy going personality, thank goodness:)

So here we are 6 weeks later and real smiles have for sure been happening! We can talk to her and she’ll smile, she knows our faces and voices & then will even smile after sleep and naps. The latter is only recently. These past few weeks have been reeaaally tough on me and her. I felt like I was spinning my wheels, not learning her cues very well and so the list goes on. After a few rough days I decided that it was time to revisit the Babywise concept and book. I read it while pregnant, but yet to pick it back up since she was born. I knew whatever we were doing wasn’t working and her fussiness and lack of sleep was so confusing to me- I KNOW she is a happy baby! So, yesterday Matt and I made it our goal to try some new things.

First and foremost, the concept of Babywise is to always ‘get full feedings.’ Then the scheduling part comes in where feedings should be between 2.5-3 hrs- which ultimately falls into place when they have full tummies. You see the circle?! Now, from the get-go this left my mind because Mollie was a ‘lazy nurser’ and would fall asleep breastfeeding and/or would just linger..so really, I created the habit of letting her ‘snack feed.’ In my haze of exhaustion a few days ago, mom and I put our heads together and realized that she has been fussy and only taking cat naps because she is HUNGRY! Duhhh, so simple, right?! She has not been getting a full tummy- the basis of Babywise and the essence of a happy child. But now my concern is a low milk supply and/or her not taking full feedings from me. Maybe that’s partially why she snacked in the first place. Since you can’t measure what the baby takes from you, you have no clue what they are getting. So snack feeds were fine with her and she seemed content for a bit, but then 1.5ish hours later, she’d be ready to eat again! It was exhausting to say the least. Probably on her, as much as I know it was on me.

It’s even double hard when you hear totally conflicting theories and ideas based around babies, eating, etc. One specialist I know says ‘feed on demand’ which for Mollie we were doing and might have been fine and naturally fallen into a routine IF she were getting full feedings. Yep, back to that. On the other hand, our Pediatrician says ‘do not feed your baby before 2 hrs have passed since the feeding time before.’ Ok…but what if your baby is crying a lot and exhibiting signs of hunger?! Mollie was doing that, but again, she just wasn’t getting enough milk at each eating period. That concept had not occurred to me as at the time she always seemed content. I re-read Babywise and we came up with a game plan. I have some milk stored up which is great, but I will pump in place of her nursing and then give to her in a bottle. She will still need to nurse on me at least 2x a day.
This is what Day 1 looked like:
6:45am – waketime, breastfeed
8:15-9:30 – nap on me
9:30 – 3oz breastmilk in bottle
10:30 – nap in crib (first one ever!!)
Noon – 3oz breastmilk in bottle
1pm – nap in crib
2:45 – 3oz breastmilk in bottle
3:30 – nap in swing
5:00 – breastfeed
6:30 – 4oz breastmilk in bottle
9pm – 4 oz breastmilk in bottle
10:30 – 6:15AM ---SLEEP THROUGH THE NIGHT!!

As you see, whether this routine works everyday or not, we are totally getting the hang of this. Mollie is even sweeter than before!! All she needed was a full tummy…and who of us doesn’t need that?! It’s crazy that sometimes you really have to take a step back from your own situation to be able to figure it out. And pray about it, ask friends, ask family- all of those things have to come into play!
No one said raising a child is easy, but if you can have tips/tools to make it easier and make sure you go easy on yourself than you will enjoy the process and the new time together. That’s exactly where Matt & I are right now! Mollie is such a delight and LOVE that she is happy again. Just a minute ago, I was holding her and she began to dose off, so I put her in her swing to do so and her be around me. She was a bit squirmy and I could see she wasn’t settling in very well, so I picked her up and figured we could try the crib. Yep..no peep and she is sound asleep in about 5 minutes. Guess she loves her alone time and her room. I love her so very much and couldn’t be happier that she is happy (and full!)

Note: Today is going fabulous, as well!

Is there true balance?

2010-08-11T17:36:00.000-04:00

Mollie has reached her 5 week mark and it's hard to believe. Each day brings a smile to my face for a new reason. She is just a true blessing to us and hard to imagine our lives and home without her in it.

I took the first 2 weeks after her birth as vacation time from work and then shortly after that, had to get back into the groove of things. I have really found it difficult some days to even get makeup on my face or clothes on my body, much less feel like I am doing my best with my work responsibilities! Luckily, I have great flexibility and really don't have a ton to do, just keeping up with Fall events/programs we're doing and emails..oh the emails.

My plan is to be back in the office 2 days a week in September and then back in the office full-time come October. I can already tell this will be very hard..but in a bittersweet way. While I LOVE being with Mollie all day, every day, I don't feel like I've mastered the art of motherhood yet- part of me is ready to get back into the office where things are not so 'random' and where I know what I'm doing! Even after just 5 weeks here, I have a whole new respect for stay at home moms. It's hard work!! I cannot even imagine it with an infant AND other kids at home, wheeeww!

It'll be interesting to see how balance will come into play for both myself and Matt working and Mollie having daytime care that's not us! I can already feel the tears welling up when I have to leave Mollie for the first day. Each day with her makes me love her that much more. I do look forward to Mollie growing up with a working mom & at the same time, Mollie will always know she is our top priority. Matt and I will do anything for her and I think all working parents have to find a routine that works best for them. We'll work during the day, come home in the evening, eat dinner as a family, play together and maybe Matt & I will even squeeze in some adult conversation with each other:) Is that routine too much to ask? We will see come Sept/Oct.

I will do my best to always put Mollie and her needs first and at the same time I do have other responsibilities to factor in. At least I have a very helpful hubby who is great around the house, as well! I have also quickly realized, not that it ever was but, it's not about me anymore. I have someone (a tiny someone!) who I want to do everything for. Now, that does not mean I wont take care of myself nor will I treat myself to something every now and again, but that's where balance comes in. I know more posts will come on this when the real world kicks back in...for now, it's just us in this little bubble and while the balance scale is totally tipped to side Mollie, I am savoring every moment and loving this time with just us!!

Happy 1 Month, Mollie!

2010-08-06T08:40:00.000-04:00

How has it already been 1 entire month with Mollie and then on the other hand, has it really only been 1 month that we've known Mollie?! That speaks to the ideas that God does give you amnesia for some moments you don't need to remember AND that time does fly when you're having fun!!

We are so in love with this little girl it's hard to explain. It has been a true learning experience every single day and sometimes, every moment of every day - and I would not trade it for the world! Matt and I are so very blessed to have had an easy pregnancy, easy delivery and the best of all a beautiful, healthy little girl. It's been awesome watching Matt love her more each day. When they are so little, don't play, breastfeed, etc it's kind of hard for the guy to do a whole lot, but he is great with her and she just lights up with him! Oh Matt, you have your work cut out for you for life & certain you are already smitten!!

The thought crossed my mind a couple weeks ago, that sadly enough, maybe Mollie would be our only child. I didn't know if I was cut out for this, felt like I wasn't doing a good job as a mom and not certain I would do all of this again. I guess that was what I would call a 'low moment' as even today, I looked down at her and for sure want more!! Matt- don't worry, not TOO soon:) Such a huge difference just a few days in a week make. Future moms, remember that...it sooooo does get better/easier. When you have hard times, just say that to yourself...& then lean on your girlfriends for support and encouragement!!

I am slowing losing some of this 'Type A' personality and am actually liking it. It feels pretty good not to always have things planned and lined out! I know I will get more back to my usual ways when I go back to work, she gets older, we are on a schedule, etc but for now, I am trying to enjoy NOT knowing what is to come. Scary, but exciting at the same time. But hey Mollie, I am ready to get on a great sleeping schedule, so anytime you are ready I am too! But until then...we'll take it one day at a time & enjoy every moment. Happy 1 month birthday sweet girl!!!

Milk Factory!

2010-08-03T17:26:00.000-04:00

In honor of 'World Breastfeeding Week' I figured there is no better topic- After all, it's ALLL I have felt like I do these days!! And I am counting down the days until my next Breastfeeding Moms group at the Hospital. Is that what my life has come to?! Haha, I'll take it:)

As an earlier post said, there is much to be left out of discussion with new moms and breastfeeding is one of them. I have loved (almost) every minute of breastfeeding and the time Mollie and I share together, but boy oh boy, it is HARD WORK! The concept seems simple enough; You naturally produce milk and your baby naturally needs to eat. Now..what can be so hard about that? Where do I begin. Now don't get me wrong, I am a full on supporter of breastfeeding, the benefits both mom & baby reap, the bonding that takes place and so on. All potential nursers need to prepare for the mental, emotional and physically challenges that come along with it. Matt is a great help before baby and now still, which I am totally grateful for. Breastfeeding is just one major thing that only you can do- daytime and middle of the night- no one can help you with that, but you know what, they can help with other things! Laundry, dishes, cleaning the house, grocery shopping, etc. Know how to delegate!!

A couple of days ago I broke down, as I could not even figure out a schedule to get out of the house & run to the store, as I had recently fed Mollie, she dozed off, but knew I would need to feed again soon- very soon. I felt like all I did was feed her..and have my moments of still feeling so. I felt so bad for even complaining, as this is a very healthy and loving child, but at that moment I needed a break and not feel attached to her every 2 hours for nursing! It is challenging, there is no doubt about that. Just another reason why we can all lean on each other and support another breastfeeding mother. It's so time consuming and draining, but well worth it!

I've dreaded using my pump, as I seriously would just stare at it, but now that I have tried it out a couple of times, I am in love. I still prefer nursing her, but working on building a little stash of milk for us to try and introduce a bottle to her in a week or so. The Garrett Household will soon become The Garrett Milk Factory I do believe,once I really start my deep freezer milk stash to go back to work! Hard to believe she is already 4 weeks today!!! Ahhh, but still my tiny little munchkin:)

Our Sweet Lil' Bunny!!!

Signs of a New Mom

2010-07-26T15:55:00.001-04:00

There have been some moments where I am catching myself saying and doing (or not doing) things that totally make me laugh and realize that yep..I am SUCH a new mom!

Mollie's first Ped appt was 2 days after she was born (1 day after we left the hospital) and it was at 9:30am. I still honestly do not really remember much about going other than the the fact that Mom and I drove Matt's car because it had the car seat in it. I am pretty impressed that I got myself dressed, make up on (I think), Mollie ready and ON TIME!! We arrived there and Molls was fussy, although had just eaten, she did not want her paci and glad mom was there as she checked her diaper and yep, total blowout- and that was prior to my milk coming in so it was a good and dirty diaper! Mom said 'Leigh Ann, grab your diaper bag.' I think my answer was 'What?' I mean...how long ago did I pack and have that diaper bag ready to go and then when our daughter is actually born and I need the darn thing, I leave it at home?!?! Mom and I both laughed and figured hey, at least we're in a place that will have diapers & wipes. So that's the first public blowout experience- not too delightful, but I will say it was funny after all the preparation I had done, only to NOT be prepared!

My good friend and neighbor Nicole had a little girl May 2 so she and I have had a great time sharing pregnancy stories/tips and now newborn stories/tips! Since her daughter Lauren is a couple months ahead of Mollie, she has been a GREAT help to me. The other day I was asking her about pumping as she is scheduled to go back to work next week & I knew she had a full-on milk factory going over there...they even bought a chest freezer from Costco. Friends after my own heart for sure! She offered to show me how to use my pump (or at least explain the parts!) so I offered to fix us lunch and walk over. I told her I'd be about 5-10 mins and in reality I think I took about 25 mins. Oops. Guess I'll learn soon that all things take longer with a child! So after I get myself and Mollie ready, I walk out of the door and over to her house. As I ring the doorbell I realize my appearance and giggle out loud with amusement; I am carrying a sack lunch consisting of turkey sandwiches, caffeine-free sodas & 2 portioned out ziplocs with Wheat Thins, then I am carrying a car seat with this tiny, precious baby in it and best of all, this cheesy backpack thing that is my breast pump..I seriously must have looked hysterical. The backpack breast pump was enough to top me over the edge in the 'new mom' category. Confession: I am not really looking forward to the day when that device has to travel everywhere with me!

This morning, Mollie & I attended a Breastfeeding Support Group at the hospital where we delivered. I know, the name doesn't sound too enticing and a little 'earthy'- that's what I thought in the beginning, but was SOOOOO pleasantly surprised. I met the nicest group of about 12 moms, with babies all ranging from 2 weeks-6 months. We sat there sharing stories & worries with each other regarding baby sleeping, eating, going back to work, etc for almost 2 hours! It was awesome to have a group like that and just talk, no real agenda. I didn't think it would be the case, but I cannot wait for the next one in 2 weeks:) Did I really just say that?! Ha. *If any breastfeeding mom wants to join me next time, let me know!

The Nursery

2010-07-24T11:48:00.000-04:00

I did give a sneak peek of Mollie's nursery a while back and then just realized I never showed the finished product! I adore this room..it feels so full of life, color and just us, really.

The sleeping quarters- very thankful we moved her in there after only a few nights in our room. It wasn't working that great with us and the bassinet in our room, so after some encouragement from my friend Kelly we figured we'd give the crib, heartbeat sound machine and the new video monitor a try. Well...the rest is history-- it works for all 3 of us and seems much less disturbing.

This is my nursing center (where I spend about 5 hrs of each day, thanks to my sisters calculations)...The drawer consists of remote controls, a nail file and many granola bars for my midnight snacks- Whew, I need those almost each night! One thing I will say is that this whole set up is a MUST for any breastfeeding mom. My huge water bottle, notepad/pen, Lansinoh boob creme, burp cloths, bibs, boppy, etc etc. This is the whole kit n' caboodle.

The second most popular spot..the changing area! SO glad I did my diaper couponing and stocking up prior to her arrival as we have gone through some serious diapers-- about 12 a day I'd say. Didn't believe it when I read that in my baby books, but yep, it's true:) We also have our washcloth wipe down's here as well and our many daily outfit changes.

So that's our baby room. We love it and hope Lil Mollie does too:)

2 weeks- Survival Mode

2010-07-20T11:59:00.000-04:00

14 days...yep that's 2 weeks. Mollie arrived in our lives 2 weeks ago today! There are so many things you can read up on and be 'prepared' for, but at the same time I feel that us women are a bit duped by each other as not being really upfront with other moms on how HARD these first couple of weeks are on the mom, baby and even dad. I didn't realize 14 days could feel so short, but at times feel so long ago!

I had a great conversation with my mom and friend Jennifer yesterday about how these first couple of weeks are a total whirlwind. The baby is trying to adjust to life in the real world, you are adjusting to caring for another human being 24 hrs a day and yet at the same time, try and live your life as 'normally' as you can nd actually maybe try and FEEL normal. Well, I know our 'normal' is a new normal and could not be more excited about that. When you choose to bring a life into this world, that's what you are signing up for- and I looked down at Mollie this morning and had a happy cry wondering how I have gone this long in my life without her in it.

It didn't even dawn on me that after she would be born that my body would have to take a while to readjust and my hormones would take a while to plateau. During a 9 month pregnancy your hormones are so high, then WHOOSH you have a baby and your hormones go way low. Now..add that to very little sleep, if any and it really doesn't make for a delightful combination- no lie you feel quite like an emotional zombie.
Once you have your long awaited baby there is nothing like it in the world..even the hard times in these past 2 weeks have shown me that unconditional love to our child really does exist and is at times a bit overwhelming and emotion gets the best of me..haha, time & time again! My tear ducts have gotten a great workout:)

I have greatly relied on some of my mom friends these past 14 days with random breastfeeding questions, sleep questions, burst of tears for no apparent reason other than the fact I felt as to having no clue what I was doing! But as I was told by our fabulous pediatrician the day after Mollie was born 'The first two weeks are all about survival- YOU are in survival mode as is the baby.' I have literally said that to myself multiple times each day since then and it has greatly helped. I also heard, "Each day gets better & it will get easier." Again, soooo true, but about day 4 I could seriously not see how that was possible. Having that motivation by friends and family were a huge help.

So on that note, I want us ladies to be encouragement for each other, be able to lean on each other more and most importantly TALK about these hard times that come with a new life..I knew it would be a blessing and love would be abundant with a baby, but I feel like I was not prepared for my body/insides to feel as bad as it did for a whole week plus, that nausea would be my stumbling block and the vicious cycle of lack of eating/sleeping would completely DRAIN me, that my emotions would take over often and I could just cry and cry. The list goes on..this is a juggling act. There is always a ball up in the air & not sure it will ever come down when you have children! The trick is to learn to juggle- I am currently taking lessons, but no pro yet:)

Sweet Mollie is here!

2010-07-14T20:43:00.000-04:00

Ok, so yeah, I am just getting around to my first blog post since Mollie's birth 8 days ago! Whew...where do I begin??!!
We are so overjoyed to have this precious child in our lives and it's still a tad on the surreal side. One minute I am so anxious to meet her and then the next minute there is she is my arms! Just truly a miracle of God, no other way to explain it.

I was so nervous about being induced and feeling like we were 'forcing' her into this world, but it was probably the best thing we could have done. I went in at 3cm dilated and 80% effaced, which I know made a huge impact on my easy labor/delivery. We arrived at the hospital Tuesday, July 6 at 6:30 am- they hooked me up to my pitocin to start true labor and it immediately went into effect. I should say that I went into this process with no plan as far as pain meds go..I had no clue what labor would feel like and figured I would just play the epidural by ear. The nurses also informed me that 3 planned c-sections were also that AM and that would tie up the anesthesiologist for 1 hr each & if I were planning to have some meds I needed to consider that it may take a while. Eeks. So, labor REALLY kicked in and it didn't take me long to feel horrible back labor and decide yep, bring on the epidural- who in the world can endure natural labor (back, nonetheless) and NOT have meds. SHEESH. Not for me...I remember saying like 'Am I really calling for an epi and it's 8:50am?' Well, glad I did, as it arrived about another 45 minutes later. 44 minutes later than I had hoped:) But after that, the nurse checked my dilation and she gave me a high-five and was said 'Holy cow, you're at 8cm- we're almost ready to push!' So freakin' weird..I was prepared to be in that room for 10-12 hrs as of course I have read & heard about alllll these stories from people- Note: don't pay attention to anyone else's labor/delivery experience..you cannot control what your body or baby wants to do, so just be knowledgeable about options, but don't think you can plan any of this!!
After 2hrs and 3 mins of labor, Mollie Bess Garrett arrived at 10:42 AM!! Matt and I both cried as it was truly touching and really, sooooo fast!! We stayed in the hospital that day and night and left mid-day that next day. We were ready to get home:)

We are now home and getting adjusted to our new 'normal' life with Miss Mollie. She is a true sweetheart..I swear she is already smiling! Other than the trials and tribulations of breastfeeding and not getting our regular sleep hours, life could not be better!! Matt and I are so blessed to have this little girl as a part of our lives forever now and it's hard to believe that she is already 8 days old. And on the other hand, I am like has it really only been 8 days?! Some times/days have been very hard I won't lie, but I have some incredible mom friends (and my mom!) who have been an awesome support system and have answered all my random questions. Thank you ladies!!! ;) I look forward to one day passing on this new found knowledge to my other girlfriends yet to experience this crazy time. What an amazing crazy time, really. And even when some times have gotten tough I am reminded that each day gets better..and to enjoy it while it lasts! Ha, sleep or not sleep, feeling like a feeding machine or not, it all has been wonderful and I am privileged to call myself Mollie's mother.

Tomorrow is the day!!!!

2010-07-05T14:33:00.001-04:00

We had our last check up Dr appt this AM at 41 weeks and 2 days and all was super..Passed the non-stress test with flying colors, Mollie's heartbeat was perfect and consistent with her movement. Her heartbeat sounded like a pack of horses just as she was about to move..really amusing to follow along with it! That sound was beautiful-if only we could have recorded that, how cool would it have been:)

The other great news is that I'm 3cm dilated and 80% effaced, so no need to have us come to the hospital tonight. She liked the natural progress we are making and I do too!! Yayyy another night in our fabulous bed at home:) Note: One thing that is strange to hear from your OB..' Good God, I have no clue how you are still pregnant, her head is RIGHT there!' Uhhh, well I am still preg and can tell you I KNOW her head is right there, I feel it! Ha- maybe this will help me in delivery we're are thinking:) Sorry if this is a little TMI for some of you..I'll spare you any more details or info, don't worry. I have for sure become less modest about bodily stuff than I ever imagined I could. It has been pretty neat though, to get with Matt on a different more personal level about stuff- although some of it I could/would have kept shhhh. haha- he has been great!

We head into the hospital tomorrow AM, July 6, to get things rockin' and rollin'. I still have some faith that we will make more natural progress by then, too. My back is KILLING me, so hopefully this is the start of something:) Who knows, maybe labor will start today/tonight and I'll still have my spot waiting on me in the hospital in the morning!! After allll these 41+ weeks of waiting and getting anxious/excited I almost can hardly believe the time is here. No more waiting. Time to meet this chick-a-dee! Maybe Mollie has been indulging me this past week knowing that I'd love a plan and not just winging it. We have our bags packed and in the car, Matt got me some fresh fruit and ice pops from Costco today-- we are ready!! I kinda feel like we're packing for a mini-vacation..magazines, clothes, snacks, portable dvd player and dvd's, pillows. Nope, just spending a couple nights in a hospital! We have for sure over packed and surely our room will look full of stuff, but who cares, we'll feel comfortable.

My sweet sisters (God Mothers) changed their travel/life plans this week so they could be here for me and to meet Mollie..I mean, we have all been waiting for her arrival longer than expected. Thank you girls, not sure what I would do without you in my life and SOOO excited you can share in this with us!!

I look forward to the next post being all about Miss Mollie Bess..including some pics! Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers and wish us luck tomorrow in meeting our long-awaited daughter. I can hardly stand the suspense!!!!! We'll keep you all posted for sure.

And so we wait...

2010-06-30T10:50:00.000-04:00

"..When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."

We are officially 4 days 'overdue', but who is counting?! But in all reality I feel pretty darn good- as I have throughout this pregnancy. I am soooo thankful for that. When we made today's Dr appt last week, I honestly believed we wouldn't need it; that Mollie would have for sure arrived by now. Well, I am learning a few new things every day!! Dr. says I am MUCH closer to baby this week than I seemed to be last week, so fairly confident Mollie could come on her own in the next couple of days:) We are staying positive that she will, but if not, then we'll start inducing late Monday, July 5.

This whole due date thing really drives me nuts. I like having a time-line in mind, but at the same time it's kind of your finish line of sorts in your mind and on your calendar. So, when June 26 came...and then went, we were like what now?! I've had many moments this week of being impatient (imagine that!) but Matt and I both believe wholeheartedly that she will come on her own & when she is ready. We really don't want to disturb Mother Nature and the birth timing.

I made the comment earlier that she is most definitely taking after Matt in her laid-back personality, just chillin' and taking it easy. I think if she were too much like me in the control area, she would have come on the estimated due date or before. Pretty confident God must know what he is doing...not sure if we need two of us real type A's in this household, Matt might just go crazy! No, I am for real.

So, we wait...Our June baby has now turned into a July baby- haha! Good thing the blog name is changing either way:) And who doesn't love the 4th of July weekend and festivities that surround it?! What an awesome birthday time she'll have! I absolutely adore fireworks and we know that time will always be spent cooking out, which we love and being with friends and family, which we love even more!!

Matt and I have faith that all things will fall into place as planned...just not really planned by us unless deemed necessary! Please send good thoughts our way and keep Mollie healthy and happy. We obviously hope to welcome her into the world & our lives this week or when she is good and ready on her own, but if not, then Monday or Tuesday it is! We do want the rest of our lives with her to start as soon as possible:)

What I know for sure..

2010-06-27T09:13:00.000-04:00

I will take a little blurb from my gal Oprah and tell you 'What I Know (right now) For Sure..'

I married the most giving and sweet man I know & thankful everyday he is my husband AND best friend.
The wait is worth it...in so many contexts.
I am not good at waiting...this little girl is teaching me patience before she even arrives! Ahhhhh!
My family is my life - I love those people more than words can explain!
Don't take 'no' for an answer..if you dig a little you just may get your way or the answer you are looking for. Be persistent.
Be creative & keep an open mind to new ideas.
Sometimes I have to give up control
I cannot wait to see my sisters!!! They are beyond excited to be Aunt's:)
Being thrifty can be fun and exhilarating- the hunt is seriously half the joy
Everyone deserves to feel wanted and loved
I will love being a mom!!
Not everything will go as (you had) planned - sometimes it's not up to you.
Get a second opinion...on anything!

I am now having the impending conversation in my head of 'Oh, when are you due?' and I say 'Yesterday.' This is slightly amusing I'll admit, but at the same time we are getting anxious--to go ahead and do this, meet her, celebrate with family that will be in town this week, etc. This is crunch time. After 40 weeks, we are ready. Obviously my long walks are not really helping move things along, nor are cleaning sprees I've gone on or my manual labor car wash from yesterday. Ha!

I have come to the conclusion that Mollie is perfectly happy eating like a queen while she is inside of me. I swear between Matt cooking amazing meals and my parents being here and cooking too, there is NOT a lack of yummy food to be had. Once she arrives it's all milk...I would not want to come either!!

We'll keep you posted, but pretty sure either way, we will get to meet her this week:) Whew... I am reminding myself to be patient. She must be finishing growing her hair and fingernails, so who am I to rush her?!

Go Get 'Em!

2010-06-25T10:01:00.000-04:00

My husband really is the greatest. Matt gets home last night with this great big present...said it's for me and that it's a gift of encouragement for welcoming Mollie into our lives soon! The thought crossed my mind to hold off opening it and then during labor & delivery he can keep reminding me that I have this great thing to open once she arrives..you know, another something to push me that much harder:) haha

But, surprises aren't really my thing so, I opened it and of course am reminded that he is soooo sweet. A bunch of thoughtful and delightful items that will make life THAT much better! Thanks boo, I love you.

Items include:
- Pixar movies: Cars, The Incredibles and Toy Story
- 4pk of to-go champagne bottles
- My FAVE summer white wine, Gazela Vinho Verde
- Delicious beers I have not had in 9 months! Seadog Blueberry and AllagashWhite
- Urban Nirvana massage (ohhhhh yeah)
- Mexican recipe magazine (neither of us can live w/o Mexi!)
- Portable radio/cd player for the hospital! And some mixed cd's he made..
- Cooler/picnic tote for some fun outings!

Excitement builds!

2010-06-22T14:06:00.000-04:00

Our (hopefully last!) Doc appt went well today and Mollie and I both seem to be doing great:) Stats good and her little heartbeat is good and fast, as usual. We played around with her a bit and identified all her limbs and where they were located as she squirmed around as much as she could being so cramped in there! It's so funny to be able to identify body parts and limbs & imagine what that bump that just poked through is, but it's different when the doctor holds her head b/t her thumb and pointer finger on my belly and says, 'we'll here is her head, still nice and far down.' So cool. And then I think, wait...I have to get that sweet little head out of me:) And very soon..Oy.

This appt was also the morning after I woke up in the middle of the night with this terrible pinch in my back. I had to get up and walk around and eventually was hunched over on the sofa! I asked the dr and she said that middle-higher part of my back is part of the urinary tract and Mollie must have been pushed up against it and it was pinching me of sorts. Eeeks- don't want to feel that again!

Pretty sure some nerves have set in a bit that this little girl is coming soon:) Real soon!! Nerves in a good way though, it's not a real typical nervous feeling, however. It's all a bit intriguing, sort of knowing what is coming (That we will deliver a baby soon) but at the same time having NO CLUE (how we will do so and then what). One thing that is not to be debated over is how much we already LOVE her and are just anxious to finally meet her and make her part of our family! I think Matt and I are both in that boat of mixed emotions, good thing I'll have mom there to coach me and show us the ropes once we get home, too!

I've read most of the baby books on my bedside table, packed our hospital bags and car seat is installed in Matt's car.. I know some things can wait, but those are the things I CAN do in advance and necessary (i.e have control over); whereas Mollie's arrival, not so much! We are 4 days and counting til her estimated due date..Soooooo hard to believe it's late June already! They say a lot of first babies are late, so we'll see. However, it is a full-moon on Saturday AND if she is anything like her momma, she will come right on time:) If not.....we wait.

Father's Day Life Lessons

2010-06-20T20:33:00.001-04:00

Another Post by Matt! ~LA

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Below is a list of things I've learned over time and hopefully some of these can be useful to Mollie. Although this is a lot of information for a newborn to immediately take in, we're very confident she will be able to adapt to, and carry on with all of these simple lessons.

1) Don't fry bacon without a shirt on

2) It never hurts to try something new at least once, even if you decide you don't like it

3) Don't eat yellow snow

4) Treat others as you would like to be treated

5) Cooking, eating, and being in the kitchen is FUN!! Don't take it as a chore, but as something you can enjoy. (She'll get started early in that department)

6) I look forward to teaching her the basics of soccer, baseball, and football (Playing and watching)-- But to try out what YOU like and what you're good at.

7) Traveling; everything that is out there, what there is to see and explore. Both nationally, internationally, and even locally.

8) Loyalty will take you a long way with your friends.

9) Saving money can be fun, and she'll just be better off in the long run. You can still do everything you want.

10) I cannot WAIT to teach her everything that Widespread Panic has put out, especially between 1995 - 2002.

11) Holiday fun, especially Christmas traditions; Pumpkin carving, Easter egg hunts, and Emmett Otter!!We have some that are old & passed down, although we look forward to creating our own family traditions, too.

And lastly, 3 more major life lessons...

1) The Lord loves a working man

2) Don't trust whitey

3) See a doctor and get rid of it

Single Digits!

2010-06-17T10:46:00.001-04:00

Ok, so we're now in the single digits of Mollie's estimated arrival date...9 days til June 26!!

We have been seeing the Dr weekly now, I'm dilated 1cm & have been that way for 2 weeks now. She has no inclination that we will deliver early and says that most 1st born children are late. Fine by me, as I know she'll come when she is good and ready. It's also reminding us or teaching us that for the rest of our lives we are on HER time:) I don't blame her for staying in my belly with this heat if it comes to that..I probably would if given the choice- haha!

I've felt super good to be this far along and hope it continues this way. I am very grateful that our health has maintained and has not stopped me from doing my normal stuff, like working! It's been a blessing, really. I'm doing my best to drink lots of water in these last days, building up my energy for labor time and of course eat as much of this delicious watermelon our stores and farmer's market have had! Man, we cannot get enough of it!!! yummm.

Now that it's crunch time, Matt and I are getting all of our notes together, i.e. birth plan, labor assistance techniques and the phone list. The hospital bags are packed and I think we're ready! Well...at least on that end! We are also having our last date-night tonight before Mollie's arrival. It's been fun to do those side things with him. Last weekend was a party downtown then off to Ye Old Fashioned Ice Cream to share a banana split. Simple, but simply amazing:) Although, at the same time, we're counting down the days when we'll get to enjoy time with Mollie & do fun things with her, too. I think our new little family will be our favorite way to spend out time- and I would not have it ANY other way! Matt is too funny about planning all of these outings and activities with her. I can see him now, being the proud papa showing her off:)

We will keep everyone posted of course! I anticipate us having a few more blogs posts in before her arrival, too. We'll see..again, all of this is up to her and when she is ready to arrive and done growing in there! Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers and let us stay on the healthy path. xoxo

Matt's Random Thoughts

2010-06-14T13:42:00.000-04:00

These are Matt's current/random thoughts-- What a GREAT dad he will make!! Molls is a lucky gal, as am I:)
~LA
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I have a new respect for ladies, with the way they can go about these days while pregnant and still do their everyday lives
Its so hot, milk was a bad choice.
We're already planning several vacations and trips for/with Mollie. Crazy how we've gone from planning trips revolving around traveling the country seeing Panic shows to taking a little girl to Disney World.
I can't wait to buy Mollie her 1st pair of soccer cleats "You'll Never Walk Alone"
I'm a little worried about my bell peppers, although my tomatoes are rocking!
Mollie's room is 90% finished and looking strong to quite strong. Thanks to Aunt Julie for her first Panic Poster!
My Father-To-Be book reading is coming along gradually. People have been doing this for millions of years without books, so I'm feeling confident...............that no matter how many books you read, its all going to be new no matter what.
Why is it that the Big 10 has 12 teams, and the Big 12 has 10 teams?
We're looking forward to some "Sip and See's" with some good friends.
Both of our parents have been a huge help in getting us prepared both mentally and through home projects. They are all super excited (that goes without saying).
Our cats have been making themselves at home by sleeping in Mollie's bassinet and crib. Its pretty funny right now, but soon we'll have to lay down the law.
When I'm in public places where there are babies present, I find myself looking are how babies are being transported, carried, and taken care of. I've gotten some very helpful insight. Who would've thought I would ever be paying attention to how a Baby Bjorn is assembled?!
We're so excited about this new step in our lives! All of our friends and families have been so great, helpful, and supportive. Thank all of you and we can't wait to share in this joy with you- very very soon!

Random Thoughts

2010-06-02T18:15:00.000-04:00

Random thoughts and current happenings...Enjoy:)

I am feeling the pain of moms due in August or September- how do you survive in the South??!! It's not even 90 degrees yet and I was dripping sweat INSIDE my office today. Yuck.
I am laying down with my feet up for the first time today and it feels amazing.
This is because my toes are feeling like lil' smokies...lovely. At least my ankles still have their shape.
I love that Matt is reading up on his 'Cooking for Baby' book each night, although we wont use that info and recipes for maybe another 6 months:)
Who knew finding a video monitor would provide so many options/confusion?. We got one that can scan/pan the room, too- looks very high tech and know it will be our lifeline for a years to come!
Mollie is trying to squirm around in my belly, but realizing she really doesn't have much room to do so..and it's starting to become a bit painful. I see elbows and knees trying to push their way out, haha!
My parents are officially our across the street neighbors and I am loving it. I know it will only get better. They are soooo excited to meet Mollie and be a part of her life!
I am wishing we could go to the Farmer's Market this/next Saturday, but don't feel like dealing with the Spoleto folks (or as Sadie calls them, the 'Spoletians')- Guess well just have a yard sale instead!
Moll's room quite possibly could be the cutest thing ever..I will post pics once it's totally done. It's so personal and just precious, really.
Thankful to have amazing people in my life who encourage me to sometimes get out of my routine or comfort zone. I know Mollie will soon become the definition of this!
Matt is obsessed with our veggie garden. When he waters each of the plants he is convinced each has visually grown some that day. Love it! We've already gotten some tomatoes, bell peppers and jalapenos in addition to the usual herbs. Now waiting on production from our squash, zucchini and our fruit trees!
Our Dr appt next week is when we begin getting measured for dilation- so exciting! Apparently Mollie's been head down for quite some time now, so that's great news and Dr did say last time she's dropped a bit, which is also on track and good! Still cannot believe how close we are..
Matt is now reading his 'The Everything Father-to-Be Book.' So sweet...told him he better hustle as he got a late start on it:) haha!
This little girl has the hiccups A LOT! It's so funny.
I am becoming fearful of my water breaking in a public place..how horrible will it be if I am in Target?! Um, cleanup on aisle 3..Not to mention me standing in line somewhere with a cart full of stuff and trying to check out with all my coupons. Won't that just be lovely?! Sheesh.
Pretty certain I will survive these last few weeks on my current stash of O'Douls Amber N/A Beer. If you have/want to drink N/A & have not tried this you are missing out. VERY close to Yuengling.
I have such a nice handful of current preg and new mom friends that I cannot wait to share this journey with. Maybe we can have some nice early am/late pm summertime walks together!
My bras are beginning not to fit. Think it's a combo of a few things, but can safely say that is NOT delightful. Pretty soon I'll be in the oh so pretty nursing bras and all will be right with the world again.
Matt has a menu made for the 4th of July family festivities. Mind you, that is 8 DAYS after Mollie's due date. Hmm wonder what kind of shape we'll all be in and what will actually take place?? I hope we are all fine, as the food choices look delish, as do the homemade margs!!! Maybe that will be a good reason for me to get out of pj's:)
Packed the hospital bag..my dilemma is what do I wear during labor? I really don't want to sport that hospital gown, but what else would I wear/ruin? I know I am bringing too many clothing options and at that time probably will give a hoot less!!
Hard to believe the countdown is on..How did 36 weeks fly by in the blink of an eye-we cannot WAIT to meet this sweetie!!!
Post from Matt should be coming soon-think he is still gathering his thoughts:) More to come...

Time is ticking...

2010-05-25T15:58:00.000-04:00

Very soon after Matt and I found out we were pregnant, I immediately went into planning mode...room ideas, list of baby items we needed, maternity clothes shopping, scouring Craigslist for great deals, etc. You know, all the fun/new baby stuff! A bit of that was done between weeks 12 and 20, then once we knew Lil G would be a girl, then I was able to hone in on some more specific things such as room ideas, name choices and showers. After the nausea wore off, friends/family knew our good news and we got a good report from all early Dr's appts, we were set to go!

That second trimester was everything I had read about and MORE! It really was fabulous. *Preg ladies and ladies to become preg, seriously take advantage of this time. Travel, do house projects, anything that you feel up for, because it doesn't get any better than that! There would be moments in many days where I would feel 'normal' and forget that I even had a living being inside of me! My energy level was sky high and being pregnant really didn't hold me back from anything really.

Then, came the weeks into third trimester. Just a tad bit of a different story. Well, that's not the full truth. Up until about 2 weeks ago, at 33 weeks, I was feeling 'awesome.' That was the word I would use when someone asked me how I was doing. It was the honest truth. I began to get a bit more tired and could feel Mollie really growing. Now that I am in Week 35, I feel a bit in slow motion. I am not walking as fast, it's taking a bit more attention getting in and out of the car and/or the bed, not to mention how uncomfortable riding in the passenger seat has become or really, sitting in general. By the way, Matt is loving me as his driver as you can imagine. I am still not 'large' so I am almost feeling bad for Mols that she doesn't have more room in there..I'm hoping she is content and not getting pissed in there, haha. Those kicks and weight shifts do feel like she is punishing me though..man, this girl has some strength behind her already!!

My very dear and close cousin Jennifer, who is preg with her 3rd boy and due 1 week before us, just had her baby this morning!!! (3 weeks early, but everyone is doing great. He was 6 lbs, 5 oz) I even talked to her last night. Yeahhhh, I'll admit how much it startled me that it's not so far fetched for me to have Mollie before June 26. Not sure I am ready for her next week! Hoping if she does come early, I'll have a bit of forewarning, though. There is still soooo much to do and I am not mentally prepared- or so I tell myself now. I have started to pack our hospital bag, but all that's in there seems to be clothes for her and I. Why does that not surprise me?! We need to install the car seats and hang things on her nursery wall. I have also been working on our Birth Plan. Thanks to my cousin for being such a pro at this and sending me her Birth Plan to edit and draft as our own, I feel we'll be in great hands and all will be known about our wishes and hospital time. I know and trust the fact that Mollie will meet us on her own terms & when she is good and ready. Don't all of us women do that?!

So, we are 4 weeks, 4 days and counting...hoping this lil G grows as much as she needs to and is then ready to meet us with open arms. I know we are beyond elated to meet this peanut, that's for sure:)

**On a side note, I REALLY REALLY want Matt to be a guest blogger on here. With just 4 weeks left, don't y'all want to hear his side of this story and experience??!! Please comment, give him some encouragement and maybe it will happen:)

Mimi and Pops soon to arrive!

2010-05-18T11:34:00.000-04:00

Once my parents were told Matt and I were expecting a baby, I think it immediately changed their lives. We told both families the wonderful news on Thanksgiving Day:) It was such fun..They were living in Alabama and had just put their house on the market not long ago then. Their plan was to lose the big house and downsize now that all the kids were away and (hopefully!) not moving back in. I am not sure at that time if they knew where they wanted to go or not, but just knew they wanted something a little different.

Fast-forward to March and Mom, being the ultimate go-getter that she is, basically sold her house herself. She wanted an open house and the real estate agent wasn't pushing it so much. So what did she do? Made an 'Open House' sign one weekend, put it in their front yard and waited...but not for long. One lady and her son/daughter-in-law came and the lady pretty much had her mind made up when she walked in the house that it was to be hers. Not only did she want the house, she wanted it fully furnished! That had been mom's dream from the beginning; give her girls some antiques, china, etc that we wanted and get rid of the rest.

Well, according to mom and all of us, it was truly an act only God could perform to bring this lady to mom and have her buy the house and most everything in it. That's what she did..In cash at that!!

With closing about 2 weeks after the offer, they began to scramble and it hit them that they needed to figure out a place to live. For real now, no more dreaming or wishful thinking, this was real! They rented a delightful little cottage in Point Clear over Easter week and then made the rounds. To my sister Julie's in Mobile, to our other little place in Myrtle Beach and of course, to Charleston.

Since it has been a couple months now, they have a tentative game plan. They are moving to Charleston THIS WEEK and renting here for 3 months!!! Oh, did I mention it's across the street from us, at my neighbor's adorable fully-furnished house?! Timing could not be more perfect and I am excited to live in the same town/state as them for the first time in 11 years and them be a part of their new (and 1st) grandchild's life.

As life changes and all new things are about to come our way, we will have Mimi and Pops (aka Peggy & John Szteiter) as neighbors and helpers with Mollie. I am so blessed to have the parents I do and that they care enough about Matt and I to make us their priority their entire lives and importantly those early months with a newborn and we'll have no idea what we're doing!

I am so very happy for the two of them to be leading this 'free-spirited' life and could not think of anyone else who deserves it more than them. Love you Mom and Dad and cannot wait to share in this next chapter of our lives with y'all:)

A treat for mom & dad!

2010-05-11T12:03:00.000-04:00

After these past multiple months of getting everything ready and (hopefully) perfect for Mollie's arrival, Matt and I decided we wanted to treat ourselves a little bit...to a new King bed!!

We've been working so hard on getting the house baby ready and her room especially, with refinishing and re-purposing furniture, buying all these crazy new baby items, painting the walls, reupholstering cushions, etc. It was time to take a step away from that and focus on another room in the house..even just for one day!

Our good friend and neighbor, Brandon, who just had their new baby girl last week, said the funniest thing the other day, 'I swear I've come to realize that the smallest beings, require the most gear and take up the most room!' SOOO very true! Ha, even when we had kittens, they sure did require a lot of goods..now this little baby is a totally different story. My whole life has already changed in the sense of buying. I really only want to buy for her and the house. My days of personal shopping have already started to dwindle and I am fine by that..I will treat myself in other ways. In fact, treating her, Matt and our house, is pretty much the same as treating myself- feels just as good!

When we got to thinking about some bigger purchases we want to make in the near future we knew a King bed was one of them. Something we probably should have done a while ago, but hey, it's never too late! We will get to share this with us, Mols and the 2 cats. Plenty of room to go around and more to fill:) I can totally see Matt now propped up with her in his arms watching the Saturday early AM soccer games on tv. That bed already makes the cats look tiny, cannot imagine what it will be like with a newborn in it!

Last night felt like sleeping in an upscale hotel. Of course with a new size bed comes ALL new bedding. Whew. Our sheets are especially heavenly (so important) and we just love the look of it all. Needless to say, the house is always a work in progress, which I thrive on!! I get it from my mom..and am thankful for that:) Looking forward to sharing our creativity and love of decor/design with Mollie, too. Cannot believe we are close to 6 weeks away!!!!

Mollie's Hometown

2010-05-03T20:55:00.000-04:00

Being raised in a fairly small, close-nit community and very locally oriented has for sure helped define who I am...even as an adult now it still, & will always, define me to a large extent. There is NO place like home for me. Fairhope, AL is one the best and most beautiful places I have ever been and know that I am blessed to have grown up there.

When I moved to Charleston, SC in 1999 for college, never in a million years did I imagine where this place would take me. That I would fall madly in love with a magical city that has something to offer everyone. That I would meet my future husband, have an amazing wedding, that I would buy my first home and the craziest yet seems to be that we will raise our daughter here. Charleston will be her hometown.

As I looked at one of my childhood friend's pictures on Facebook earlier, I saw that her two daughter's recently had their dance recital that the two of us had every year for many years- Mollie (as of this point) will never take dance lessons in the same place that I, her mom, did. Not that that is a bad thing, just different and a bit surreal that she will not have the same childhood memories that I did. I was raised on the water (literally) and me, mom and dad would go fishing off our pier all the time..as a little girl I supposedly could out throw anyone with a casting net:) I was barefoot more often than I had on shoes.

This makes me wonder what Mollie's memories will be..Will she grow up looking back on Saturday's at the downtown Charleston Farmer's Market? Will she appreciate all of the history and architecture this Holy City has to offer? Whatever her memories will be, we'll be sure to make plenty of them!

For the rest of her life, she will be asked 'Where were you born?' or 'What is your hometown?' I look forward to talking to her about mine and Matt's adventures here in this wonderful city, how we came to meet each other and learn more about ourselves in a new location. I love Charleston dearly and will be proud to call this Mollie's hometown, as I know she will be.

The Little Things

2010-04-27T20:16:00.000-04:00

As my 'small' belly becomes a 'small soccer ball' it seems the little things are getting a bit more difficult..things I have taken for granted or never really paid attention to.

With something hard and round attached to your front side, it makes some things a bit interesting. Not pregnant or even in the many weeks prior to now, I haven't had an issue doing my every day/week things.

When you bend over with a hard baby belly, nature lets you know real quick that your belly needs somewhere to go, therefore your legs spread. I didn't even realize it until I caught myself in this very strange stance! Quite amusing I must say.

As I was getting ready to go home last weekend for a wedding and baby shower, I figured I needed a toenail polish! Well, as easy as that seems to be or have been, I can safely say I think the days of painting my own toes are behind me..that is until my little soccer ball is no longer:) I am grateful the polish got where it needed to be and actually looked good, but Matt had to hear me huff and puff the whole time!

Now, this week, as I get ready for our big fundraiser on Thursday night, I figured I might as well shave my legs while I have some time. At least Matt and I have a built-in seat in our shower, but man...It kind of wore me out trying to reach all around!! This should make for an interesting next 9 weeks of shaving (or lack there of). Matt, sorry in advance if I go a little bit between shaves:)

So, as we sit here and watch my belly and Mollie grow by the day, it's a constant reminder of the miraculous feat our bodies endure when a woman is pregnant--just fascinating and a true miracle. All those little things I can or cannot do seem so silly now...who needs to bend over or shave anyway, right?!!

Surreal Moments

2010-04-19T09:39:00.000-04:00

I wish I could write this blog daily..but sometimes life gets in the way! I have all these post ideas and 'lightbulb moments' that come to me, but really, no time to write them! I will try to be better.

This past week I was involved with the Family Circle Cup Tennis Tournament here in Charleston for the 5th year in a row. The Center for Women is the chosen charity, so we must have a presence there for all 8 days and in addition, we do two wonderful events out there. One was Tuesday night and one was Thursday day. ALSO, Matt and I have a friend/colleague who runs all of the food & beverage out there for the tournament and other concerts, so of course we both love to work for her when we can, so that came a few nights this week, too. Whew.
We ALSO had our great friend's wedding in Charlotte this past weekend, congrats Lawson & Katie for such a fun and beautiful day! These pregnancy hormones sure did get the best of me multiple times!! Not to mention we have my dear friend Brant's wedding this upcoming weekend in Alabama! 'Tis the season and we cannot wait:)

It is so amazing to meet up with people that you have not seen in a while for such a joyous occasion as a wedding and at the same time actually SEE the love they have for our unborn daughter already. It was too surreal at moments to see this little flower girl toddle down the church aisle and realize that when my sister's get married, that will be Mollie! It was even more surreal to see sweet Katie dance with her dad and think about Matt one day giving Mollie away to her husband..I am literally tearing up as I write this! Ok, preg hormones, cut me a little slack please!!!

As I realize that we only have less than 10 weeks left before our due date, my mind wanders in all different directions. I am overwhelmed at times with excitement of meeting this little person inside of me and can hardly stand the suspense of seeing her for the first time and figuring out her personality, who she resembles, etc.

Matt and I go home this upcoming weekend to be with some of my most favorite people in the whole world and some of the BEST friends anyone could ask for. A wedding and a baby shower, not much more we can ask for. Alabama friends and family...here we 3 come!!

Milk Factory

2010-04-05T21:36:00.000-04:00

This past Saturday marked Week 28..3rd Trimester- WOOHOO!! It's so hard to believe that much time has already gone by and now we have less than 12 weeks before Mollie's due date.

During all those weeks that have passed, I've read and are still reading, some baby books, subscribed to a number of baby/parenting magazines and attended a baby preparedness class, with two others to come. There seems to be SO very much to do and learn before this little one is born and at the same time you (or I!) feel that I cannot do enough before she comes.

Tonight was our 'Breastfeeding' class at the hospital & Matt and I had a few good laughs and nervous eye exchanges, that's for sure. He was a great sport & came along to keep me company and learn more. Glad I had him there to make funny tv show references (i.e. The Office) or that hard chair and powerpoint could have gotten really old! I cannot even begin to express how overwhelming the breastfeeding info seems to be. I mean, according to my 'Babywise' book -which is FABU as a side note and recommended by many friends, and then this class, I will breastfeed every 2-3 hours during each 24 hr period, for about 30 minutes each time. Is it just me or does that math not factor in any time for the mom (ME) to sleep?! Will this baby constantly eat and me constantly feed?! Ha, a milk factory may be my sole purpose in the beginning and I am willing to accept that:)

We want to breastfeed for sure and I will definitely put the time and effort needed into it. That's a commitment I will make and will need support and encouragement to keep it. YAY mom for being in town for a bit after Mollie comes!! As she said, 'we'll take it one day at a time and get through it- it's well worth every bit of it!' Luckily she has had us 3 girls and breastfed with each, so knows the drill...as for Matt and I, we are in the total dark over here. But willing to learn and excited about the process:)

Inspirational Women

2010-03-29T12:12:00.000-04:00

One of the most memorable moments of my wedding day, other than marrying my best friend of course, was looking around the room at ALL of the people whom I love dearly and who love Matt and I back enough to support us on that amazing day...that love and support was overwhelming in a wonderful way!

The feeling was somewhat similar as my Center for Women co-workers threw me a super sweet baby shower a few nights ago. These 20+ guests took turns around the room saying how they knew me, maybe an impression I made on them or something about me in general. All comments were so very dear and loving, that I looked around the room, again wonderfully overwhelmed!

This has been my first job since college and these women have become my extended family..especially since my sisters and parents live in Alabama. I've said it before and sure I'll say it again & again, but I am so grateful to have these inspirational women in my life. I knew all of them through work in one capacity or another, but we have reached a greater level with each other than just colleagues. Mollie has NO IDEA what is coming her way..I can't wait for some of these women to be in her life and show her what REAL role models are, not the television or pop star kind.We all know better than that..hopefully!

Thank you friends and colleagues for such a wonderful time and a night I will never forget!

Me? Slow down?!

2010-03-23T13:30:00.000-04:00

All of this fantastic energy that I feel blessed to have sure does have it's downfalls. I don't know when to stop sometimes until I am BEAT! I did experience common fatigue in the early weeks of pregnancy, something like I have NEVER felt before & hard to explain to those who have yet to feel it, but since I got past that stage I have felt amazing!!

The problem with this much energy and feeling 'normal' is that at times I forget I am as pregnant as I am. Still no real big belly, but now that I am a week away from the 3rd trimester, I need to start taking that into consideration and slowing down a bit. I want to be myself and energetic, but at the same time, need to know when to say no to some things or just take some breaks between activities & recognize my boundaries.

We had a wonderful few days this past weekend! Friday night my sister, Jane, was in town and we attended Charleston Fashion Week. So fun, but I've yet to be 'out on the town' later than 8pm (ha!) and in heels for a while.

The next day Matt and I were up bright & early to make Lowe's and Home Dept runs, do yard/patio work and plant our veggie/herb garden for the year. I always underestimate the time all of that takes, and energy, to say the least. We both love doing it so at the time it's wonderful--at 6 months pregnant your body starts to not feel the same after multiple hours of manual labor. Sunday was no different...back out in the yard for the morning before we got caught in the rain. Sunday night and Monday I was paying for the weekend fun and hard work. - Yayyy new patio and roof! Cannot wait to enjoy summertime out there:)

I am trying to still act like and perform my usual hobbies and duties as before, yet the difference now is that I am growing a little girl inside of me! As I approach week 27, I can feel myself slowing a bit naturally, so I guess that's God & Mother Nature's way of helping me make that choice:) I hope I continue to feel as good as I have in these many weeks prior, just need to take it a bit more easy some days, as to not wear myself down. I really don't want to change my ways, but at the same time, I already feel I'd do anything in the world for Mollie...so...taking it a BIT slower, I will:)

Nesting or just a planner?

2010-03-16T09:34:00.000-04:00

I recently received a surprise gift in the mail from my friend and author, Stacey Crew. Her book is titled The Organized Mom. Of course, I started reading it that night!

It is truly fantastic..not only does it discuss new baby needs and to-dos, but other house organization techniques room by room, as well. There is a entire section on storage and what goes where i.e. hall closet, guest closet, kitchen cabinets, etc. This is always a battle in any household and it feels so good to have pointers written down!

I have had a multiple days (& late nights) where I have been in total organization mode- I am led to believe it's nesting, but really think it's a bit of me thinking 'Ok, so we're going to have a new family member in this house in less than 100 days and I want to get all this done NOW, not later.' I have gone on total organization overdrive when I was not pregnant...this is nothing new, but the new part is that now I'm doing it for someone else, in addition to me & Matt:)

After spending some time a while back with my mom washing new baby clothes and organizing them by size/season, I realized there is a still a ton to do for me to feel prepared and organized. Stacey's book has helped me find my starting points and make them manageable. In addition to a new baby, there is just a TON of stuff that will come with that lil peanut & I am quite sure I don't know the half of it! One suggestion was to use an over-the-door shoe holder to store those little baby items and just another place for storage. So happy I have a ton more space, but so far in designated pockets (that have yet to be labeled, but will be!) I have washcloths, bibs, pacifiers, extra socks, and of course some cute, tiny shoes and room for more as any girl would have it!

I came to the kitchen basics section in the book on Saturday that discussed the bottles, nipples, pacifiers, etc and where one should keep all of that. Hmm good question. Hint: near the sink and dishwasher. Sunday, after returning from the grocery store with more stuff, I got in de-clutter mode. Matt and I pulled everything out of our (huge) pantry and started over. Some things got tossed, but mostly things got a permanent home for them that made sense. For example, all canned goods went onto 2 shelves sorted by use/item and that freed up our entire lazy susan next to the sink and dishwasher for baby goods! I didn't even know that much room existed until I really spent some time sorting. The new found space is great, but grouping all like items together really makes you see what you have & what you need to stock up on when it goes on sale. Not to mention you'll be that much more inclined to use it!*Any great recipes using canned creamed corn anyone- Why do I have 4 cans?!

If you or I do want to think of this as nesting, then bring it on! With 3 months to go until Mollie arrives, who knows what's next on the agenda! If not nesting, then I just welcome this kind of organized chaos in our house anytime it wants to rear it's lovely head:)

She has a name!!!

2010-03-12T10:54:00.000-05:00

Who knew a name could be so hard?! This Lil G finally has one..so let the monograms, etc begin:) Matt and I are excited to share with you, Mollie Bess Garrett.

“Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in the low time. Never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst moods. Wait. Be patient. The storm will pass. The spring will come.” --Robert H. Schuller

Even though this quote has more of a negative spin than what we have been feeling of course, when I read it, it made sense. I got so flustered with not easily deciding on names we had tossed around, but really, all we needed to do was 'Wait. Be patient...The spring will come.' We had a few good names chosen and in the end, we came full circle with the first full name we ever had discussed. Guess that is meant to be. Funny how that works out, huh?!

We both love Mollie and then Bess is Matt's moms maiden name & so precious we think.While she was once an 'it' then a 'she' now 'Mollie,' it feels more complete. We can't wait to meet her and see what unimaginable joy this little girl is bringing our way!